My father & Gr. father did that. Incredibly despicable. Broke my poor mother who then stayed in a marriage she never would/should have. They had money, she didn’t. Really evil.
Does the agreement have anything in her favor? Threaten to take it away. Tell her the agreement is fucking toast and so is everything in it she wants. Call her bluff and tell her you’re going to take every drop of blood out of her in the next agreement and she’ll wish she had kept the first one.
Think of the meanest, dirtiest, nastiest, backstabbiest, smash teeth into a curbiest tactic you can do, within the bounds of the law, and just do it. You will get zero points for being a nice guy. People like that only respond to your williness to go thermonuclear. Threaten to take away her access to the kids. If you play it nice she will just take take take.
DCB – I doubt that you’re over-reacting. She’ll try for a modification & at a minimum there’ll be several court dates whether the decision goes your way or hers. It’s a total waste of time, money & effort.
Yes cobble, it’s evil. Sometimes that’s the only way to respond to people like the ex mrs dcb.
“Threaten to take away her access to the kids.”
My father & Gr. father did that. Incredibly despicable. Broke my poor mother who then stayed in a marriage she never would/should have. They had money, she didn’t. Really evil.
Maybe I need to raise chickens and sell organic eggs. I need money. Can one raise chickens on a rooftop?
As evil as it may sound, you may need to get nasty with her DCB. She sounds like she won’t quit unless/until her ass is held to the fire.
Chickens are leal but not roosters
leal? is that legal.
I am protesting, that is discrimination.
Does the agreement have anything in her favor? Threaten to take it away. Tell her the agreement is fucking toast and so is everything in it she wants. Call her bluff and tell her you’re going to take every drop of blood out of her in the next agreement and she’ll wish she had kept the first one.
DCB, my very serious advice to you is as follows:
Think of the meanest, dirtiest, nastiest, backstabbiest, smash teeth into a curbiest tactic you can do, within the bounds of the law, and just do it. You will get zero points for being a nice guy. People like that only respond to your williness to go thermonuclear. Threaten to take away her access to the kids. If you play it nice she will just take take take.
DCB – I doubt that you’re over-reacting. She’ll try for a modification & at a minimum there’ll be several court dates whether the decision goes your way or hers. It’s a total waste of time, money & effort.
legal