donatella: Maybe I was being ‘dismissive’ but maybe, just maybe there was less to this than you think. That’s all I’m saying. Don;’t you know people who over-react? And are you never dismissive of them?
Well, cmu, you are right that we don’t know the whole story and it may be less that I think. Only that woman knows. And if she is afraid she should take it seriously. (and not ask us dopes, as G10, says…. 🙂 )
donatella: Maybe I was being ‘dismissive’ but maybe, just maybe there was less to this than you think. That’s all I’m saying. Don;’t you know people who over-react? And are you never dismissive of them?
ugh dipster, that dbag we hate who is always sitting around in soho ALL day everyday acting like an attention whore with the boombox, finally has a gaggle of friends now. i cant stand him. today he’s wearing tight leather clown pants and a matching leather vest.
the whole handyman thread is interesting
I guess I didn’t sense true fear from her – b/c if she was fearful for real she’d better be reporting to the police and not wasting time asking us dopes what our opinions are on the matter
I felt bad for the dude – he just sounds like he doesn’t understand boundaries. Also what kinda “gifts” was the other woman tenant getting? a cup of coffee or like a diamond necklace – I dunno I just thought it was a bit alarmist
On the handyman story: His interactions with the woman that posted sound like they could have been innocent, just depends exactly what he said and how he said it. There’s no good excuse for his behavior to the neightbor though. Once it gets to the point of repeated presents / dinner invitaions etc it’s definitely creepy.
anyone have any fun plans for the weekend?
*rob*
By cmu on May 21, 2010 3:57 PM
Thanks g10, better put than my ranting.
donatella: Maybe I was being ‘dismissive’ but maybe, just maybe there was less to this than you think. That’s all I’m saying. Don;’t you know people who over-react? And are you never dismissive of them?
Well, cmu, you are right that we don’t know the whole story and it may be less that I think. Only that woman knows. And if she is afraid she should take it seriously. (and not ask us dopes, as G10, says…. 🙂 )
Have a good weekend, PLUSAS.
Thanks g10, better put than my ranting.
donatella: Maybe I was being ‘dismissive’ but maybe, just maybe there was less to this than you think. That’s all I’m saying. Don;’t you know people who over-react? And are you never dismissive of them?
ugh dipster, that dbag we hate who is always sitting around in soho ALL day everyday acting like an attention whore with the boombox, finally has a gaggle of friends now. i cant stand him. today he’s wearing tight leather clown pants and a matching leather vest.
*rob*
the whole handyman thread is interesting
I guess I didn’t sense true fear from her – b/c if she was fearful for real she’d better be reporting to the police and not wasting time asking us dopes what our opinions are on the matter
I felt bad for the dude – he just sounds like he doesn’t understand boundaries. Also what kinda “gifts” was the other woman tenant getting? a cup of coffee or like a diamond necklace – I dunno I just thought it was a bit alarmist
By cmu on May 21, 2010 3:40 PM
wow what? Am I prescient?
Prescient? no, I don’t think so. You were dismissive of the person’s concerns. If she didn’t feel “threatened” why do you think she posted?
Woman who sits near me at work…..
“what is so funny over there?”
ROB!!! (you have had the BEST advice on this handyman, Rob.)
wow what? Am I prescient?
On the handyman story: His interactions with the woman that posted sound like they could have been innocent, just depends exactly what he said and how he said it. There’s no good excuse for his behavior to the neightbor though. Once it gets to the point of repeated presents / dinner invitaions etc it’s definitely creepy.