rf- my ex and I went through years of asking these questions. We knew other biracial couples and looked at neighborhoods where they lived and how they lived. I’ve lived in predominantly Black neighborhoods for years and in Bklyn Heights for years, when we were married. Believe me, I know what the issues are.
Snappy, comments like those are gonna earn you a spot on Mrs. Jackal’s sh*t list. Next thing you’re gonna tell him to leave with one of the stripper’s banana republic cardigans.
Bxgrl – I get it, it’s not about going to an all white nabe that is seething with clan members – that’s at least obvious and easy to avoid or at least confront – I think he doesn’t want to deal with white people who give you the “side eye”. The town I grew up in didn’t even a huge black population, but I would feel safe there bringing up my child b/c it was a pretty liberal town filled with other populations other than white
Is the ballet being performed by topless Russian women, shaking what their mommas and Dr. Melvin gave them? Do the ushers pass out shots as you are being seated? If the answer is no, then skip it.
There really is something inherently funny about surprise buttsecks.
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rf- my ex and I went through years of asking these questions. We knew other biracial couples and looked at neighborhoods where they lived and how they lived. I’ve lived in predominantly Black neighborhoods for years and in Bklyn Heights for years, when we were married. Believe me, I know what the issues are.
Snappy, comments like those are gonna earn you a spot on Mrs. Jackal’s sh*t list. Next thing you’re gonna tell him to leave with one of the stripper’s banana republic cardigans.
Bxgrl – I get it, it’s not about going to an all white nabe that is seething with clan members – that’s at least obvious and easy to avoid or at least confront – I think he doesn’t want to deal with white people who give you the “side eye”. The town I grew up in didn’t even a huge black population, but I would feel safe there bringing up my child b/c it was a pretty liberal town filled with other populations other than white
Lech, guess I was right?!?! 😉
uh, yeah snappy, duh. And actually it’s best to pre-game before the ballet cause the drinks are crazy expensive there.
“Dibs, I can only assume what you’re talking about involves surprise buttsecks.”
I’d have to argue that when agreeing to a night with Dave, the buttsecks is no surprise. At all.
“I know I can count on you to get me through this difficult time.”
You’re welcome! We’re here to help, lech! : P
Is the ballet being performed by topless Russian women, shaking what their mommas and Dr. Melvin gave them? Do the ushers pass out shots as you are being seated? If the answer is no, then skip it.
“lech…I’ll take you to the Web and Townhouse…both close to your office on 60th street.”
Dibs, I can only assume what you’re talking about involves surprise buttsecks.