rob, ok, here’s my dating advice. Get into your indigo child happy mind state. Go to a friendly gay bar. Be in a very good mood. Bring your tarot cards. Look in the bar for a person who looks like the nicest, most fun and hot person there who you think he will “get you”. Then figure out a way to talk to him. Drink diet coke till 10:30 pm and then drink what you want. Do a reading. And exchange numbers. That’s it. More fun stuff to come……
If no person is like that there, leave quickly.
That, my dear, is the best dating advice you are going to get.
So maybe change the wording to, “looking for”. Looking for is not stalking. I don’t know jester but don’t think he is a stalker. I just think there is something to what m4l says, that a “hot chick” likes a guy who takes initiative.
How do we know she is not attracted to him? (If that was written here I missed it.) She may be attracted to him and have to take care of something else before she is available. Also while jester is out “looking”, he may find something else- even better.
“Did y’all NOT read IJ’s conversation with the woman?
um, she’s not interested in him.”
It is amazing how many would be Lothario’s miss this basic first step in the dating ritual.
First, see if you can get the woman interested. If not, then give it up. Initial attraction either happens pretty quickly or it doesn’t.
For the slightly more advanced, step 2: Once you are pretty sure that you have got her feeling basic attraction towards you, see if you can build on that initial attraction. Generate some heat.
By the time exchanging contact info is an issue, it should just follow naturally. Extra points if the woman makes sure to give you her number first.
i know youre giving jester advice, and he’s straight… but is it the same for straight and gay?
*rob*
🙁 ugh. now i wonder what my purple contact lenses say!
*rob*
wacko would be my first impression.
By Butterfly on January 6, 2011 3:15 PM
ooooh give me some dating advice next!!!
*rob*
rob, ok, here’s my dating advice. Get into your indigo child happy mind state. Go to a friendly gay bar. Be in a very good mood. Bring your tarot cards. Look in the bar for a person who looks like the nicest, most fun and hot person there who you think he will “get you”. Then figure out a way to talk to him. Drink diet coke till 10:30 pm and then drink what you want. Do a reading. And exchange numbers. That’s it. More fun stuff to come……
If no person is like that there, leave quickly.
That, my dear, is the best dating advice you are going to get.
how do you generate heat?
*rob*
So maybe change the wording to, “looking for”. Looking for is not stalking. I don’t know jester but don’t think he is a stalker. I just think there is something to what m4l says, that a “hot chick” likes a guy who takes initiative.
How do we know she is not attracted to him? (If that was written here I missed it.) She may be attracted to him and have to take care of something else before she is available. Also while jester is out “looking”, he may find something else- even better.
quote:
It’s all in the eyes.
🙁 ugh. now i wonder what my purple contact lenses say!
*rob*
“Did y’all NOT read IJ’s conversation with the woman?
um, she’s not interested in him.”
It is amazing how many would be Lothario’s miss this basic first step in the dating ritual.
First, see if you can get the woman interested. If not, then give it up. Initial attraction either happens pretty quickly or it doesn’t.
For the slightly more advanced, step 2: Once you are pretty sure that you have got her feeling basic attraction towards you, see if you can build on that initial attraction. Generate some heat.
By the time exchanging contact info is an issue, it should just follow naturally. Extra points if the woman makes sure to give you her number first.
By Butterfly on January 6, 2011 3:15 PM
ooooh give me some dating advice next!!!
*rob*
Learn to do your taxes.
ooooh give me some dating advice next!!!
*rob*