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  1. that can be helpful besucae there is no correction allowed. If something isn’t offered and there isn’t a ‘reaching out’, people are accused of not caring.If critique is offered, people are accused of picking on the victim.Though my statements are general in scope, it seems there is a ‘damned if ya do and damned if ya don’t’ situation.If people will be damned no matter what, why bother.There remains a refusal to receive any intended correction. Even if we could agree as to why we are where we’re at, there would be no correction allowed for making things better, that would be blaming the victim.Yes, women are strong. Women give birth to all children. Some of these children are male. It would seem that women have always an opportunity for the greatest influence on the next generation. Perhaps this as well is too strong a criticism and hints at too much self responsibility.If there continues a zero sum mentality to all correction….can’t we see that we’ll miss out on some needed correction? As we pass down this rejection of correction, kids act out with all kinds of angst towards it as well. Yes, there are always problems to be found in yesterday, in all people in myriad areas. A better way for individuals is for individuals to enact a better way individually. We have to start somewhere. So called ‘communities’ are made up of individuals. Even if we don’t experience the benefit of the correction in our own life, we should teach our children a better way so things can truly be better.Almost in any ‘critique’ we could find some grains (or truck loads…whatever) that we could utilize for a better way and self correction. Where is the human condition so perfect that we don’t need to continually be self correcting?Let’s quit beating each other over the head, as if we know the intents in someone’s heart. If there is a grain or the shoe fits then self correct. If not fine, hopefully there will be allowed correction in a more appropriate area.