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I get that part, denton. It’s the part where they make you feel you simply can’t enjoy life or fulfill yourself if you don’t have kids. Having been in many a bar with firemen, I have to say i found them a bit more welcoming.
Denton, that is a good way to put it to Bxgrl, I think. I understand what you are saying Bxgrl — people don’t mean to exclude or make women without kids feel bad…but it happens sometimes.
Also, Denton thanks for the offer about Flickr. I didn’t see that during the day — had to leave — I am going to take you up on that. I appreciate it.
My pre-nup should be done next week. Then it’s off to City Hall.
We will do a second wedding when we finally buy a home and have a big party.
Strange how things go. 4 and a half yrs in divorce court destroyed me financially, but I am half way back. Thought I would never have another relationship, but quickly fell into a wonderful one with the future Mrs. DCB.
Thought however evil my ex-wife is, she would never use our 2 boys as weapons. Wrong again. In fact, this is the only area of my life I am unhappy with. Being a father is part of my identity, and the constant alienation really hurts.
“well bxgirl, some could argue that if you dont have a baby you havent fulfilled your biological purpose in regards to evolution. thus you are irrelevant and a big old fail to the human species.”
I get that part, denton. It’s the part where they make you feel you simply can’t enjoy life or fulfill yourself if you don’t have kids. Having been in many a bar with firemen, I have to say i found them a bit more welcoming.
Denton, that is a good way to put it to Bxgrl, I think. I understand what you are saying Bxgrl — people don’t mean to exclude or make women without kids feel bad…but it happens sometimes.
Also, Denton thanks for the offer about Flickr. I didn’t see that during the day — had to leave — I am going to take you up on that. I appreciate it.
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I made Mrs. D sign a pre-nup
pre-nups are tacky. if anyone ever tried to make me sign a pre-nup before marriage, i’d be out the door so fast!
*rob*
My pre-nup should be done next week. Then it’s off to City Hall.
We will do a second wedding when we finally buy a home and have a big party.
Strange how things go. 4 and a half yrs in divorce court destroyed me financially, but I am half way back. Thought I would never have another relationship, but quickly fell into a wonderful one with the future Mrs. DCB.
Thought however evil my ex-wife is, she would never use our 2 boys as weapons. Wrong again. In fact, this is the only area of my life I am unhappy with. Being a father is part of my identity, and the constant alienation really hurts.
Was it somebody from Dirty Franks????
Just got a text that a best friend from childhood is 6 weeks pregnant.
“well bxgirl, some could argue that if you dont have a baby you havent fulfilled your biological purpose in regards to evolution. thus you are irrelevant and a big old fail to the human species.”
Oh? Is that the reason they said that to me? 😉
“I was sure I never wanted a kid. So sure I made Mrs. D sign a pre-nup stating same (poor woman).”
DCB, did you get that?
“Mr. Green was the first fruit I ever encountered!!”
I always wondered what Mr. Greenjeans was to Captain Kangaroo.