Backyard next door - fence removal

Hi, just wondering about protocol – we have new owners next door who are planning a lavish full reno of their backyard (ours is a giant tree and a pile of dirt, as we’re saving up for an eventual – less lavish – renovation). We have a chain link fence around our backyard, marking the property line. New neighbors asked if they could remove it on their side, to put up their new cedar fencing. Is there a reason to say yes or no to this? My feeling is that property lines are important, and essentially saying yes would mean losing some of our backyard to their fence posts, but I don’t want to be a jerk!

mrreedent

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cate | 6 years and 2 months ago

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I would be thrilled if my neighbors offered to replace chain link with cedar while respecting the property line. You don’t want the two fences back to back because weed trees and other pests will grow between and you won’t be able to remove them, causing huge issues, destroying the fences and creating a very expensive problem.

pmody | 6 years and 2 months ago

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Back to back fences are not that attractive in my opinion. Let them remove the chain link. Ask them to install a double-sided fence such as 4” lattice directly on the property line. There’s no “front-side” or “back-side”.
https://www.waysidefence.com/wp-content/uploads/2-and-4-square-lattice/4-inch-Square-Lattice-2.jpg

Better air circulation, fewer mosquitoes no one loses property, and you save money.
Everyone wins.
Btw, our neighbor did exactly this, we continued with the same style fence on our other property lines and now other houses on the block are doing the same.

yudashasom | 6 years and 2 months ago

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Let them remove, and you can install your fence directly on the backside of their posts. 4” or so doesn’t make a difference, especially on the back of the lot.

JohnHancock | 6 years and 2 months ago

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I’d say let the remove it, saves you the trouble and it’s not a pretty fence anyway and you have a nice fence on that side even if it’s the back side

RobertGMarvin

in General Discussion 6 years and 2 months ago

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Once your neighbor installs their cedar fence they won’t see your fence, so why should they want to remove it? If it was my back yard I’d say no.

resident2 | 6 years and 2 months ago

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My response would be that the boundary fence should stay where it is. They are welcome to install a new fence on their side of the boundary.

GreenThinker | 6 years and 2 months ago

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pretty simple, agree to the removal of the chainlink fence as long as they build their fence completely on their side of the lot line. When property surveyors come to stake out the line, they’ll mark a line in the front of the yard and in the back, then who ever comes to do the fence, simply pulls a string between these two marks.