“I enjoyed our email exchanges and it was a pleasure to meat you. You’re a delightful person, but I feel we have no chemistry. Good Luck.”
You’re right. That’s actually better. I’m super sensitive about this because I’ve had people say some stupid crap to me (E.g., “when I wake up in the morning, I don’t think about you”…”when I’m out with my friends, I don’t want to tell them about you”) and get very sensitive when people articulate lack of interest. So long as you keep it vague and general, it’s alright.
cmu- in yet another bxgrl shocker today- i agree with you about Lieberman. Can’t stand him either and if we are going to strip citizenship from anyone, you are absolutely correct- they have to be proven guilty first. (Medic! I need a medic over here for cmu. I think he fainted) 🙂
For me the Fade Out is insulting and degrading. I would hope that as a human being I be treated as one and not ignored. I don’t want a lengthy 10-page report, but a courteous: “I enjoyed our email exchanges and it was a pleasure to meat you. You’re a delightful person, but I feel we have no chemistry. Good Luck.”
As for the other scenario: Life is too short to wait. Go for it.
“I enjoyed our email exchanges and it was a pleasure to meat you. You’re a delightful person, but I feel we have no chemistry. Good Luck.”
i.e, “See you, sucker.”
meat you?
…well it is after 4PM,
technically raunch hour has begun, no?
“Ooh, not bad! Except for the meat you part!”
Not bad?!?!
that I have decorum and believe in honesty in relationships.
As for the meat part…what can I say. I’m anxious for raunch hour.
“I enjoyed our email exchanges and it was a pleasure to meat you. You’re a delightful person, but I feel we have no chemistry. Good Luck.”
You’re right. That’s actually better. I’m super sensitive about this because I’ve had people say some stupid crap to me (E.g., “when I wake up in the morning, I don’t think about you”…”when I’m out with my friends, I don’t want to tell them about you”) and get very sensitive when people articulate lack of interest. So long as you keep it vague and general, it’s alright.
one of my brother’s met wife soph year of HS. Married right after graduating college and still married happily it seems at 58 years of age.
“I enjoyed our email exchanges and it was a pleasure to meat you. You’re a delightful person, but I feel we have no chemistry. Good Luck.”
Ooh, not bad! Except for the meat you part! : P
cmu- in yet another bxgrl shocker today- i agree with you about Lieberman. Can’t stand him either and if we are going to strip citizenship from anyone, you are absolutely correct- they have to be proven guilty first. (Medic! I need a medic over here for cmu. I think he fainted) 🙂
“you’re all scary.”
We’re not 20-somethings!
“just do the fade out”
I’m on the opposite camp of Jessi.
For me the Fade Out is insulting and degrading. I would hope that as a human being I be treated as one and not ignored. I don’t want a lengthy 10-page report, but a courteous: “I enjoyed our email exchanges and it was a pleasure to meat you. You’re a delightful person, but I feel we have no chemistry. Good Luck.”
As for the other scenario: Life is too short to wait. Go for it.