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September 27, 2009

Toto Eco Drake Local Distributor

Good Brownstoners,

Anyone purchased a Toto Eco Drake toilet locally? Where? How much?

Thanks

April 3, 2009

Bed Stuy Meadow

Hey folks,

Next Saturday about 100 volunteers are going to cast wildflower seed on every single abandoned patch of land in Bed Stuy--every lonely tree pit, vacant lot, dead zone between the fence and the sidewalk and enormous crack.

It should be really beautiful to watch that many people doing one thing to change a neighborhood. I hear that they are giving out re-usable tote bags and that there's even an afterparty.

I also hear that they need more volunteers! If you live nearby you might want to join the fun. Here's a project description:

http://www.21stcenturyplowshare.com/bed-stuy-meadow.html

To volunteer, email 21stcenturyplowshare@gmail.com

February 25, 2009

Forest Gardening

Hey so I got this amazing set of books about edible forest gardening

(in a nutshell, it's a permaculture technique, in which you mimic the organizational principles of a forest but plant food crops like fruit trees and greens and berries and such)

and am wondering if anyone else out there is doing such a thing in their yards. Anyone?

February 2, 2009

Another Refi Thread

Hey so I contacted my bank (Wells Fargo) today to ask about refinancing, and it doesn't seem like that good a deal. They wanted a point, an appraisal, new title insurance... they said closing costs would amount to like 10K, for a rate of 5.75%.

Doesn't seem like that good a deal. I live in Bed Stuy, so will definitely be trying HSBC's Community Works program.

Anyone else getting better news? If so, where?

January 8, 2009

Cork Tiles + Dog

We've been renovating for a long time on a shoestring, and are hoping to finally realize rental income on this baby and move into the owner's duplex upstairs very soon.

There is one last hurdle: flooring.

We will have a hardibacker subfloor over hydronic radiant heat (hardi is the thermal mass). In the future, when we have money again, we will be putting down a nice engineered wood floor, but it could really be awhile. We need an interim floor that is *very* inexpensive, won't need to be taken up in order to put down the real floor, and will last up to 5 years, because who knows how long this economy will suck?

Cheap 4mm cork tiles seem like the way to go. They'll stick to the hardi, are about the same thickness and material as underlayment, are supposed to be very resilient, and are only $1.49 a square foot.

I have only one doubt. One member of our family has some scritchy scratchy toenails and occasionally runs around in his bare feet, chasing balls and his tail and whatnot.

Anyone here have cork tiles (of any quality/price) and a dog? Does this work? It's supposed to be an industrial-grade material that's suitable for restaurants and hospitals and such, but I am skeptical.

November 23, 2008

Condensing Boilers: Educate Me

This is a continuation of the ongoing saga about my astoundingly high gas bills.
At this point, I have talked to three plumbers in my basement who have all said that my problem is this older, conventional boiler hooked up to a hydronic radiant heat/indirect domestic hot water system. Master Plvmber, while he hasn't been in my basement, is a thoughtful and knowledgeable professional, and has written that he thinks there's something else wrong--that an old boiler can't be *that* much less efficient.
At this point, all due respect to MP, I am ready to believe the people who have actually been in my basement and seen my setup and all say the same thing, even when I press them and ask better questions than I asked of the first guy. It looks like if I want to see the efficiency of the stuff I already bought, it looks like I have to throw down for a condensing boiler.
Who among you, aside from Denton, has a condensing boiler? Does anyone know of a good website or formula for figuring out what size boiler you need to buy? Am I indulging in wishful thinking when I assume that I can get a much smaller boiler because the whole problem seems to be that my existing boiler is too powerful? What about tankless water heaters instead? Yes, I know that this would render my indirect tank useless, but John Hlad (who is a real gem, I must say) said that tankless might be even more efficient, and that they now make models that vent up a chimney.
Tell me your stories, give me your tips. It looks like I am about to go stimulate the economy!

November 11, 2008

Sorry, Denton, Master Plvmber Still Smells A Rat

Denton, the kudos may need to get revoked. I am reposting because I want to bring this back to the level of Present Problem That Needs Solving, instead of the "Denton Was Right" post, which is about thinking that there was a solution.

Master Plvmber and CMU think that the plumber I consulted was wrong, and that the facts of the "Denton Was Right" post are muddled. Which they are. I was mostly in it to congratulate Denton.

Here's what I can clarify for MP and CMU and anyone else who knows a thing or two about boilers. If you've all got time, I would definitely like to get a sense of whether this plumber I spoke to was on the level, or in the ballpark:

ORIGINAL PROBLEM:

High gas bills in the middle of summer and beyond, with boiler firing often. High gas bills started after installing indirect H2O heater and hydronic radiant heat to the boiler that came with the house.

Boiler in Question: a weill-mccann (sp) that is, according to the plumber I met with last night, "84% efficient."

Troubleshooting steps taken so far:

*Turned down temperature to 120 for awhile, this worked to lower the bill, but didn't make showering very fun. I do like a hot shower.

*Made sure the heat was off

*Listened to the boiler closely for awhile and just made sure it was firing when it was supposed to. It seems to be firing after showers and such, and not you know, at random, now that the temperature is set to a reasonable 125.

Met with a plumber last night. Here's what happened:

1. The plumber confirmed that there was no leak, but not by testing anything. He basically said that if there was a leak, we would all know because we would smell it.

2. He said that there was nothing wrong with the way the system was set up. The thermostat on the water heater is set to 125. He looked at the way everything was set up and definitively said that the problem was the boiler.

3. He said that the existing boiler was like 84% efficient, and that additionally the bottom of my boiler was "open" and pointed to the open vent area at the bottom, and that a condensing boiler would be a "closed" system that isn't always drawing cold air. He did use the terms "open" and "closed." He also talked about the basement being relatively chilly. I stated that the highest bills I've had so far were in June and July, but he kept going, explaining cold drafts, and etc.

Okay, now I am starting to feel a little dumb. But I'll keep going.

4. He said that the big difference wasn't just the 84%-95% difference, but the idea that the flame modulates. He said that hooking up an indirect tank to a non-modulating boiler is a recipe for a high gas bill, because you shouldn't be using all your BTUs to cook a little hot water.

5. He also suggested that I insulate my pipes.

There are no 40 minute showers, very few baths, our *water* bill for the last quarter was only $60. The heat hasn't been on all summer, I can't figure any other place to start thinking about it.

Obviously I am going to keep interviewing plumbers, seeing as how the trusted and knowledgable MP has given up on the good people of Bed Stuy ; )

And what I am hoping sincerely is that you guys are right, and that there is something going on that isn't a new boiler. It's not the right economic climate to buy a new boiler.

November 10, 2008

Denton Was Right!

Last week I posted a question about my high gas bills.

My DH and I hooked up our radiant heat and indirect water heater to the existing boiler, thinking that we were slowly building our Brownstone Temple of Great Efficiency.

What we got was $165 gas bills in the middle of summer.

We thought we had hooked something up wrong. We used a plumber, but he was not a boiler expert, and had never worked with radiant heat before, and was a friend. It was all very DIY and seat-of-pants.

We hung our heads in shame, figuring that there were issues with how we set it up. We thought the pumps were pumping too hard. That the flow was backwards. Or something.

The good news is that we did a good job hooking everything up.

The bad news is that we didn't do something simple and wrong. We just need a new boiler.

For all you baby-steps people who are renovating a little bit at a time like us:

Do not hook up your mad efficient new system to your inefficient boiler! Your old boiler doesn't modulate the flame, so every time your water heater is like three degrees too cold, you'll be blasting out 110,000 BTUs.

November 3, 2008

Calling MasterPlvmber!

Or anyone else who knows about indirect water heaters.

We installed radiant heat and an indirect heater to our old boiler around early spring, and ever since our gas bills have been rather high. I mean, astoundingly high.

Our heat's not even on, and we sometimes pay $178 a month for gas, and it never goes below $100.

I am assuming that something got installed wrong, and that this is causing too much boiler-firing. It's a complicated system--there are pumps and stuff... my husband knows what everything is, but I look at the whole thing and scratch my head.

The water temp is set low, around 120.

I know it's ridiculous that we've been living with this for about six months. But...

...where do we start with the troubleshooting?

October 6, 2008

Utility Bill Comparison

Instead of feeding the What on this bleak day, I figured it might be more interesting to start a discussion about utility bills. You got high bills or low bills? How do you even know until you compare stories with other people?

Right now we are one couple living in a 2-family brownstone. We're in the middle of renovations, so we are living in the garden apartment.

Our water bill seems delightfully low: $68 this quarter. But our gas bills seemed high this summer: around $150 a month for two people. I can't tell how much money I am spending on electricity, because Con Edison is ridiculous. I overpay every single month because I can't remember to phone in my meter numbers.

What are your utility bills like? How did you lower your utility bills? Anyone else think my gas bill is outrageous?

Author's Comments

Listen, the reality is that women get hazed in stereotypically male work environments, and shouldn't need tougher skin than men in similar positions but absolutely do.

As a woman who has worked on way more jobsites than offices, I have survived and thrive because I have a very dirty mouth, am not afraid of conflict and am just about impossible to offend. I also go ahead and sympathize with how weird it looks to see a tiny blonde woman lifting a 100-lb bag of cement, actively point out that I am smaller than my co-workers, and generally don't try to act like everything's normal. I am a novelty, and honestly it's easier and more honest to work with it than it is to work against it.

You can't change people, but you can behave as if you will be treated the way you want to be treated, and empathize with the fact that a lot of people in the trades have very little formal education, come from countries that are really sexist, and live in a much more gendered world than you do. This mixture of integrity and empathy is strong. It doesn't work instantly, and is more about developing relationships than negotiating the hardware store, but it works really well.

Posted by: vanburenproud at November 7, 2009 9:33 AM in response to Contractors & Chauvinism

A guy on my block is convinced that street trees create an environment that's conducive to crime. I think that's pure silliness.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 28, 2009 3:24 PM in response to Trees in Bed Stuy?

We used a guy we found on Craigslist who is GREAT, he fills his van and takes it to the dump for like $400-$500. For larger jobs he knows a guy who drives a packer. No dumpster problems.

I don't have his number now, but the guy I am thinking of I think used to be called Djeran construction. He's a particularly great person. But a lot of guys do this.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 28, 2009 3:21 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

I know more women painters than men painters, but none here that I would recommend.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 25, 2009 5:00 PM in response to Perfectionist Painter

If there's truly a vast expanse of good wood to lag to on either end, you can use lots of 1/2" lag bolts.

There should be enough good wood on either side anyway. Otherwise, you should be thinking in terms of replacing the joist instead of sistering to it.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 15, 2009 7:47 AM in response to What kind of wood do we use

Depends on what you're sistering for and the bigger picture.

I replaced the plumbing wall end of a handful of joists and did quite a bit of sistering using 2x8s sandwiched and bolted together using 1/2" schedule 5 bolts. This worked because the damage was localized, there was plenty of parent material to sister to along the length of the joist, a lot of the work I was doing was creating a level surface along the length of otherwise structural joists and I was mostly working on the short side of the load-bearing beam--there wasn't much cantilever. My house is also on the narrow side.

LVL is good for things like creating arches where there were load-bearing walls and other engineering feats. Much joist work is not an engineering feat worthy of an expensive LVL beam because most joists are sitting about 16 inches away from another perfectly good joist--the load of the floor, walls, etc, is pretty well-distributed.

That said, there are a lot of times when that's not the case. If you are dealing with a particularly wide span, are replacing many joists entirely instead of sistering to an existing joist that's still mostly structurally solid, or are working to support a structurally problematic part of the house like the mortise-and-tenon floating in midair and filled with bricks in front of your fireplaces, or if you have any other reason to think that the regular old wood joists that you're replacing weren't good enough, then I would surely consider an LVL.

But honestly, having to do this kind of structural work on your house sucks, and the only upside is that at least the materials to fix it are cheap.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 14, 2009 8:16 AM in response to What kind of wood do we use

Corrieri is local to Astoria/LIC and has great prices.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 12, 2009 11:35 AM in response to Container/ Rubbish Carting Recs

Dogs that are barking all day and night are not getting walked by owner.

Get on either google maps or oasis, find your house and use the map to figure out the address of the house rather than relying on walking the street. Look for the way their backyard abuts yours.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 9, 2009 7:36 AM in response to Dogs Barking...Constantly

The picture looks like it's not grouted yet. If that's true, any grout will lessen the undesired effect, and a darker grout will lessen it considerably.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 4, 2009 8:05 AM in response to Penny Tile Disaster?

I don't think it's about reading people well as much as it's about communicating really well and setting the right expectations.

Sometimes in an effort to be nice, landlords downplay their needs. This is polite behavior and is useful in most circumstances. But when you say things like "it's okay" when your tenant is late with rent, it's not the same as saying "it's okay" when someone spills their drink on your shoulder at a crowded bar.

When you downplay or dismiss your needs with a tenant, you open yourself up to the kind of people who are always testing, and that turns into conflict. When you are clear about your needs and don't sell yourself short, you're leaving fewer opportunities for conflict.

Posted by: vanburenproud at October 3, 2009 8:44 PM in response to Advice on Finding Tenant

Good for you for avoiding a big landfill dump!

Good luck! The tub might be a good candidate for a re-enameling.

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 29, 2009 7:37 AM in response to Rehabbing '30's Tile

Test the muriatic acid in a corner before going nuts--either it does what you want or it ruins the surface.

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 27, 2009 10:11 PM in response to Rehabbing '30's Tile

Denton's right. Asbestos is not kryptonite. Anyone who works in ceramics, a foundry, some science labs or about a million other industrial/artisanal situations where you need a truly excellent insulator still comes across asbestos on a regular basis, and the chances are excellent that it's not going to kill them.

Denton's characterization of asbestos reads pretty much verbatim like any foundry/ceramics/welding textbook sidebar about asbestos risk. It's simply something you need to get regularly exposed to, like cigarettes, it needs to be friable in order to harm you, and it is still everywhere (in an industrial setting).

It's important to recognize its presence and its risks, wear a P100 mask that fits your face and keep it wet if you're going to render it friable and isolate everything (ie, triple bag it and toss your clothes). That's what you pay an "expert" to do.

Zberlin, it's good to be safe but you are speaking past your area of expertise here.

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 27, 2009 4:18 PM in response to Asbestos That's Not a Ripoff?

I dunno... the OP could either be too anal/invested in being right, or they could be sensing a small power play and feeling (rightly) like they should nip it.

I would look at this in context. If everything else is fine (tenant pays on time, is good about communication in other matters, etc) then I would chalk it up to my own anality and let it go.

If there are a million little things like this, and if I've always got this nagging suspicion that the tenant is trying to withhold or game me, then I would go talk to the tenant and get the lease back, and generally start a program of behavioral modification on that tenant in which I start establishing much clearer expectations, and follow through on unmet expectations fairly and consistently.

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 25, 2009 1:27 PM in response to Tenant Refuses to Return Lease

@Biff Champion: what's so bad about a little noise in the bedroom...

I did say, a lot of comments above, that a good strategy includes apologizing for being confrontational.

I said it because the response from the dad (shutting down, demanding that the OP present the solution) sounded like he at least perceived a conflict. I obviously don't know whether there was a real conflict here. But even if the OP was totally friendly, if the dad perceived a conflict, then it makes sense to acknowledge it by apologizing.

I mean, what's more important--being right or fixing the problem?

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 8, 2009 2:08 PM in response to Running Child Upstairs

I am working with Matt diFrancesco on my house, he's great and is focused on substantive changes in energy efficiency, not bamboo and stuff:

http://www.brownstoner.com/profile/matthew%20difrancesco

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 8, 2009 7:42 AM in response to Green Builder

Any parents of a young child in the city already have enough conflict and face enough judgment, and honestly, you are adding to that pressure by framing this problem in your mind as being about their parenting skills. People are very sensitive to being judged, and will become resistant to anything you say if you are judging. This distorts the situation.

I would start being friendly with them for awhile. This alone might change their behavior. If not, when you feel like you know them and they aren't your enemy anymore, bring up the topic again in a different way--perhaps apologizing first for being confrontational last time, then stating that you understand that the boy needs to run and that you want him to be able to, and then suggesting those foam tiles (which can be picked up and put down easily) or carpet.

I would frame this by stating that you are bringing it up because you want the boy to run around whenever he wants to, because you like the boy and understand that small children need to run.

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 8, 2009 7:39 AM in response to Running Child Upstairs

It's too easy to call freelancers tax cheats when they are merely following the tax code. I certainly don't cheat. If you are truly making it, or have a wage-earning job, then you just don't understand how the tax code works in this situation and this income bracket.

To the OP: any good mortgage broker is going to understand this situation. I used Mark Maimon at Universal Mortgage, he was good about this, but he also sprang a surprise on me at the closing table, so I don't exactly recommend.

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 3, 2009 6:00 PM in response to How Can Self-Employed Refinance?

This may or may not be relevant. I am self-employed and got a mortgage in 2007 using a mortgage broker, who asked an independent accountant to verify my income. Basically, that meant providing her my 1040 and schedule C (which, like yours, states that I live darn close to the poverty line after deductions) and come up with a different number.

The number she came up with is a lot closer to reality than my 1040, less than 10% inflated if I go by my monthly budget and savings plan. But I don't know how she came up with this number, or how kosher this is now that it's not 2007 anymore.

Posted by: vanburenproud at September 2, 2009 6:39 PM in response to How Can Self-Employed Refinance?

Agreeing with the rest, I would have kept a lot more of the deposit.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 31, 2009 5:32 PM in response to Security dep. deductions

Other people might have already said this, but keep in mind that in NY all brokers are working for the seller, not the buyer.

I was naive about this when I bought, and got pretty well f***ed.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 31, 2009 5:28 PM in response to Brokers Useful when Buying?

I love my ikea kitchen, going on 2 years and it has held up really well. Very easy to install, we did it ourselves.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 31, 2009 5:26 PM in response to IKEA Kitchen

Seconding "always interview pets."

Instead of taking a large pet deposit, I require that dogs have a reference from a trainer, and I always call the trainer and ask how the owner did in the class, to find out whether the dog is going to present problems.

I got a lot of shit about this the last time I mentioned the way I handle pets on this forum, but you know, it works. People who go to the trouble to train their dogs are proactive and take care of problems before they start. That's the kind of dog owner I like to work with.


Posted by: vanburenproud at August 29, 2009 7:01 AM in response to tenant has vicious dog

As a dog lover, and as someone who's owned a truly vicious dog, I have to agree with the rest of the posters here. It's not okay to own a dog that attacks people in a city, although it is a good sign that the dog did not break the person's skin. The situation is probably treatable, but you are liable.

That said, the dog might be able to be treated with medication or behavior modification. If you have a soft heart and the tenant is a good one, you might want to consider demanding that the tenant see a dog behaviorist and/or vet, and be in contact with the professional to ensure that the dog's problem is successfully treated.

But frankly, even though I love dogs, I wouldn't feel bad about not taking this extra step. Liability is liability.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 28, 2009 5:47 PM in response to tenant has vicious dog

I think the best advice is to be really straightforward and an excellent communicator as a landlord.

*Be very clear about your expectations, both verbally and nonverbally as josereyes points out.

*Make it easy for tenants to do the right thing and difficult to do the wrong thing. For example, invoice for rent instead of just expecting it. Your needs should always be crystal clear, never unspoken.

*And remain emotionally neutral and businesslike when dustups occur. If you get shocked or upset, you'll just start contributing your own bad behavior, and that can give your tenant a reason to keep doing what you don't want.

If you do these things, you'll be fine.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 24, 2009 11:57 AM in response to Advice for New Landlords

I've noticed bigger groups this year as well, and while I appreciate other people's rights to a hobby as much as the next person, I also worry that someone's gonna get hurt. I agree that I see more riding against traffic and other behaviors that could hurt someone than I have in previous years.

I'll bring it up at my precinct meeting, and maybe other folks will too. Following traffic laws is important for everybody.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 17, 2009 7:20 AM in response to Motorcycle Gangs on Fulton St?

Um... what are you smoking?

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 15, 2009 6:12 PM in response to Noxious Neighbor Help

Modsquad, perhaps I'm being unclear, but I think I'm making a straightforward point about how to get what you want without creating a conflict.

Haven't you ever found an employee that's not working out a job that's better fit instead of firing them? Or offered someone a plastic bag so that they could pick up their dog shit?

There are a million ways to help people do what you want them to do instead of engage in a conflict. In this scenario, it's a good idea to try this strategy because it sucks to fight with neighbors, and because it will work better. It's easy to dislike someone who's being sensitive about your livelihood. But it's hard to dislike someone who's helping you.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 15, 2009 3:54 PM in response to Noxious Neighbor Help

Quincy is a close to Gates, which has a lot of housing projects along its length, and can get a little rough. I would definitely spend a lot of time on the block and talk to neighbors before buying a house on Quincy, to get a sense of the crime and noise levels.

And Halsey between Malcolm X and Stuyvesant is a nice block in my experience.

But as with any home purchase, don't trust anonymous people on the internets without doing your own research. In this market I assume you have plenty of time to talk to the neighbors, take the train ride late at night, hang out on the street, walk around...

That kind of research is going to tell you what you need to know. Good luck!

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 15, 2009 3:40 PM in response to Torn Between 3 Houses

And to clarify further, my point is a rhetorical one. It's not persuasive to talk to someone who's fixing cars in their driveway for money about your comfort. It creates a very stupid conflict in his mind: you're threatening his *livelihood* because you are *uncomfortable*?

He's not uncomfortable, and he's closer to the fumes than you are. Who wouldn't respond to that with some version of "f*** you?"

In order to be persuasive, you have to figure out how to align your approach with his interests. This is about money for him. The fines are money. Getting shut down means no more money. The fact that what he's doing is illegal threatens him. You shouldn't be threatening him because he's already got troubles! You should be figuring out how to help him in a way that also gets him to stop idling cars in your driveway. You can fake help him (ie, help him "avoid a fine" by telling him that you saw the cops when you didn't) or help him for real (ie, help his wife make her business legal and/or profitable)...

...but the bottom line is that people hear you better if you are helping them.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 14, 2009 5:59 PM in response to Noxious Neighbor Help

Hilarious pickup on my error, modsquad. Apologies... I meant CO meter.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 14, 2009 5:37 PM in response to Noxious Neighbor Help

OMG, your neighbor won't care about your CO2 meter... framing the issue selfishly, in terms of your house, your comfort, your health is a one-way ticket to being ignored/ridiculed.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 14, 2009 3:03 PM in response to Noxious Neighbor Help

I wouldn't do this.

You and the client are on good terms now, and probably will remain so. But renovating a house with a contractor is a stressful experience for your client, in which he/she feels out of control, and so it never goes completely smoothly. If/when things get unsteady (as things do as the stresses of renovating a home accumulate) you would be ensuring that you don't have any distance. All your eggs would be in one basket.

Camping on a jobsite is a good way to increase the potential for feeling like you aren't taking care of yourself, and might make you cranky. And working and living in the same place is a great way to increase the potential for feeling threatened, or unable to get away from a small problem that feels big in the moment.

People who hire contractors need their contractors to be steady in the face of the client's inevitable doubts and anxieties. Clients pour tens and hundreds of thousands of dollars, and time, and their own discomfort, into a project, and are usually not great at managing people or communicating their needs. Who is, really? And who renovates more than a handful of houses in a lifetime?

The client-contractor relationship is already somewhat volatile. Why add to that volatility and put yourself at a disadvantage?

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 14, 2009 11:53 AM in response to Any barter experiences?

Call OSHA.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 14, 2009 11:34 AM in response to Smoking in the Workplace

Idling vehicles are illegal because they are a serious health issue. City kids get asthma because of idling cars. Prioritizing the needs of the many over the needs of the few, Rob, is what city living is all about.

The last thing you want to do is frame it as an issue of your personal discomfort. That strategy makes people like Rob make decisions and statements that work against the good of everyone, because they've been personally irritated by what they feel is your personal tenderness.

The most effective thing to do is impersonally lean on the law and law enforcement, and tell idling drivers in a "hey buddy trying to help you out" kind of way that the police have been giving out a lot of tickets for idling on this street lately. They know how expensive a ticket is, and will thank you for telling them to turn off their engine.

Surely there's a similar strategy you can use with your neighbor.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 14, 2009 11:32 AM in response to Noxious Neighbor Help

While I generally don't agree with anything *rob* has to say, I think there are arguments for paying it.

First, fight the ticket, like everyone else has suggested.

Second, look at your lease and highlight any language about fines, etc.

If the tenants are good people and you want to keep them, and if there's clear language in your lease, have a little sit-down followed by a letter that restates the chat. Say that you got a fine, and that you want to take this opportunity to refresh everyone's memory about the lease. Make it clear that the fine is their responsibility, but offer this one time to split the fine because it's easy to understand that the tenant wouldn't understand how expensive it is to put the trash out early.

Ideally, everyone will feel relieved, and you will have the opportunity to look like a nice person that your tenant wouldn't want to screw later. I think that's valuable--I would pay $150 for that once in a long, productive tenancy.

If they aren't particularly good tenants, then cut the part about paying half.

If there is no language about the fine, it's time to make some. Sit down and have a chat followed by a letter, and use it as an opportunity to make the new Trash Policy (and/or Fine Policy) clear. Explain that you got a fine, and that you have to pay it because you didn't make the policy clear, but that in the future, if there are any fines because of the tenants' garbage, they are responsible, and it will be taken out of their security deposit if it's not resolved.

Again, I would focus on being fair-to-big about the whole thing, so that in the future the tenant has not just the policy, but the social pressure of knowing that you shouldered a fine for them.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 11, 2009 7:37 PM in response to Ticket for Trash - Who Pays?

The stuff in front looks like lambsquarter, which is actually delicious sauteed. Like spinach, but much more intense. Spinach plus.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 9, 2009 8:16 PM in response to Weed Identification

If you dig, you might find all your pavers. That's what happened to us.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 7, 2009 5:12 PM in response to Making a Patio

Bed Stuy is a great neighborhood, but it's got its hard-to-love parts. Quincy is close to Gates, which is a tough street, it's got a concentration of housing projects along it.

Chances are good that your block is fine crime- and quality of lifewise, but you never know. Have you walked around a lot at all hours of the day and night? Taken your future train commute late at night? Talked to your potential neighbors? If you haven't, then I would do that before proceeding, although you already "have a contract out" on it, so hopefully you've done this step.

Welcome to the neighborhood!

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 7, 2009 5:10 PM in response to Any Thoughts on 341 Quincy

Okay, maybe just a few trillion years. Peelaway is a great set of products, in my experience they are really gentle. That is a good thing, but gentle = slow. I really like nontoxic. But if I was working outside and if it's a lot of layers of paint, I might consider a more toxic product that will get things moving faster:

http://www.rockmiracle.com/product_listing_temp.html

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 6, 2009 12:58 PM in response to Stripping Stoop Paint

Are you talking about building a structure or laying pavers?

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 4, 2009 7:37 PM in response to Making a Patio

Yes, but it would take about one million trillion years.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 4, 2009 7:36 PM in response to Stripping Stoop Paint

Or just creating large canvas flats and securing them with a couple of masonry screws.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 3, 2009 8:38 PM in response to Covering Up Exposed Brick

I found all I needed buried in my backyard. Might want to take a look yourself.

Posted by: vanburenproud at August 3, 2009 8:37 PM in response to Garden Slate

MM is smart to look at who's thriving and who's failing, and think about why. So many people think that businesses will fail in Bed Stuy because there's not enough density, or because there's not enough rich people, or because of crime. But really, it's about building a market. It's more important to be excellent when you are building a market, but a lot of businesses in Bed Stuy fall victim to the wrongheaded notion that it's OK to suck in Brooklyn.

There are a lot of people who want to buy things in the neighborhood that they usually import from Manhattan or other neighborhoods in Brooklyn along their commute. But choosing to bring your dollars home can't feel like a sucker's game, or people won't do it. It's easy to pick up a bottle of wine in Manhattan, but once I get home and decide to trust Olivino, I have made it difficult to get a bottle of wine if Olivino flakes on me. So it is *more* important for Olivino to be open when they say they will, and have decent stock, than you'd think. Olivino is great about this, so I consistently choose to spend there. But if they decide they are closed one night, or decided to stop stocking cheap bottles, or whatever, I will feel really screwed, and will start protecting myself by buying my wine in Manhattan, like I used to.

Peaches, in addition to making both black and white people equally comfortable, is great at being reliable. I know that I can get a burger, or catfish and grits, with no hassle and good vibes, every day except Monday, with no BS, bad food, long waits, or lame waiters. Tip Top, Tiny Cup--similarly reliable and revisitable: they have something you genuinely want, are consistently open and don't tend to disappoint with dumb problems, bad service, not having what you need/expect, etc.

Saraghina seems to be doing really well with being reliably good and open, but their waitstaff is too foreign to make all kinds of people feel comfortable. (this shouldn't matter, but almost every single time I have eaten there, I have been seated next to a very uncomfortable table of diners who I believe are reacting to the fact that their waiter can't quite speak English)

Solomon's Porch was awful in terms of reliability and repeatability. The food there was an afterthought. It was closed at weird times.

Any business would do well in Bed Stuy, provided the owners:

1. care so much about what they were offering that they will go out of their way to ensure that many different kinds of people are welcome and comfortable in their place.

2. are committed to being aggressively competent and reliable.

3. And understand that the competition is not whatever else is in Bed Stuy--it's Manhattan.

Posted by: vanburenproud at July 31, 2009 1:50 PM in response to What Does Bed Stuy Need?

ever tried talking to him?

Posted by: vanburenproud at July 14, 2009 10:08 PM in response to Neighbor's Huge Tent

I always see logs like this alongside the streets in Long Island City. Try driving Vernon boulevard up and down (like from Pulaski bridge to Costco) twice a week for a few weeks. You should get all the logs you need.

What are you doing with them?

Posted by: vanburenproud at July 13, 2009 4:27 PM in response to Wanted: Tree stumps

I got mine at Parma Tile in Queens, but also saw them at Home Depot.

Posted by: vanburenproud at July 12, 2009 4:51 PM in response to Entryway marble saddle

CMU, I prefer the term "anality," plus everything else on your list. This thread is _so_ Bad Brownstoner, all it needs is a heaping tablespoon of Excessive Worrying About Lead.

Besides... feats of aesthetic greatness = selectively breaking the rules. Who among us on this forum can see the OP's vision? I can't. All I see is black text on a white background. Maybe it's one of those situations that sounds awful and needs to be seen. A lot of aesthetic decisions are like that.

Posted by: vanburenproud at July 7, 2009 8:50 PM in response to Mexican tile for bathroom floor?

Oh, man it's threads like these that make me wonder why I post anything here...

Posted by: vanburenproud at July 7, 2009 12:30 PM in response to Mexican tile for bathroom floor?

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Posted by: induction cooker at October 26, 2009 11:13 PM in response to Perfectionist Painter

Filco carting

Posted by: MrHancock at October 28, 2009 3:23 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

Mopar - Depending on how much you have, it may be cheaper to do a couple dumpsters. There are different rates for all cement/masonry, wood, general debris, etc. Most places will fit your schedule & if you're fast you can get it done in one day - pile everything in the front area. Tell them your alternate side day. I used Action Carting - 866 270 9900

Posted by: Arkady at October 28, 2009 3:34 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

Citywide Demolition and Rubbish Removal Inc (718) 599-9135

Posted by: aocbklyn at October 28, 2009 3:38 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

i know for a fact that there are people willing to pick up what you need dumped, then go dump it in dumpsters around the neighborhood for a smaller fee than what renting your own dumpster would cost.

*rob*

Posted by: Butterfly at October 28, 2009 3:40 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

I have the same question! We just bought a house and need to start demo-ing our wonderfully 70s wood-paneled basement (complete with a bar.) I'm thinking about renting 3/4yard containers (the little ones)to sit out front of my house. But I am wondering if this will send a flag - do I need demo permits for doing this? If so I might just be doing the 200 bag over 40 week thing myself!

Posted by: helppls at October 28, 2009 3:42 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

Rob, you are insane. It's too much to fit in a truck.

Thank you everybody and Arkady for those specific suggestions.

Helppis, be careful, don't leave an empty dumpster unattended or it will be filled by Rob's friends!

Posted by: mopar at October 28, 2009 4:04 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

quote:
Helppis, be careful, don't leave an empty dumpster unattended or it will be filled by Rob's friends!


LOL you mean filled with our crap, or filled with US?

*rob*

Posted by: Butterfly at October 28, 2009 4:29 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

Rob - They turn big dumpsters into swimming pools so why not a small one as a bed?

Posted by: Arkady at October 28, 2009 5:01 PM in response to Dumpster Details?

Last time I rented a dumpster, I went through the Yellow Pages...and at least half the companies had disconnected numbers with "no further information available." I got the feeling it was a business with a high, er, turnover. I've never figured out how one reserves the street spot short of sleeping in it; people just move traffic cones out of the way...

If you need a guy to do the clean-out work for you, we used Greg's rubbish removal for our basement crap and they did fine.

Posted by: Brenda from Flatbush at October 28, 2009 7:04 PM in response to Dumpster Details?