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August 5, 2009
House of the Day: 439 East 19th Street

We're liking the look of this single-family house at 439 East 19th Street in Ditmas Park—the original built-ins and coffered ceilings are stunning. The 2,800-square-foot house changed hands in 2002 for $775,000 and just hit the market now for $1,249,000. That comes out to about $450 per square foot, less than what this house a couple of blocks away recently sold for.
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What a pretty house and it's in my neighborhood, so moving would be easy. My only problem is that I'm about a million two short... anyone wanna help me out here?
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 1:23 PM
Call countrywide, T6.
Posted by: antidope at August 5, 2009 1:26 PM
Tybur6, I can give you my change so you can try your luck on the megamillion drawing on Fri.
This is a super nice looking place. only if it was the 2002 price of 775k. Comes with parking too.
Posted by: more4less at August 5, 2009 1:28 PM
Nice house - it's on the same block as the Ebinger bakery house (one or two doors down). Wake me when these go for 800k.
Mr B, 2119 Albemarle Terrace is not really a comp for this - different style of house and different location (although I personally prefer this location).
Posted by: the chicken at August 5, 2009 1:42 PM
Chicken, 800k Sterling will be more than enough to buy this baby
Posted by: more4less at August 5, 2009 1:45 PM
Real estate porn, real estate porn. Yummyyyyy.
Posted by: Kensingtonian at August 5, 2009 1:47 PM
where is the listing?? i can't see a link for the listing!
Posted by: cmar7785 at August 5, 2009 1:51 PM
Lovely, need to put more coin down on tonight's lotto.
Posted by: DeLepp at August 5, 2009 1:52 PM
Just stunning. And on our block! Houses like this are what makes DP such an amazing place to live...And at less that $450/sqft, lots of bang for the buck. A real beauty!
Posted by: lah at August 5, 2009 1:53 PM
When I see houses like this, it makes no sense to me why people move to New Jersey.
You get to live in a gorgeous home, live close to Manhattan, have great services nearby AND not have to pay a buttload in taxes every year.
Added bonus: No NJ address
(No offense to those who love and live in the Jerz)
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 1:59 PM
Kitchen? Baths? Condition?
LOVE the original detail on the interior, great cedar shake exterior. 19th Street in DP is a great block, even if a little too close to Flatbush Ave., a little too far from PPS. Houses on 19th street are prime, from an architectural standpoint. Best DP proper has to offer.
I would pay 1.2 for this house now, if the kitchen and baths are not up to par. I would pay full price if house is mint. It's reasonable, even given the current market. What this house has to offer is unique. Preserved detail like that is priceless. It would have fetched upward of 1.5 two years ago.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 2:01 PM
I agree, if you can afford private school tuition for your kids, or are remarkable adroit at playing the NYC public school game. Depends on number of kids and pure energy levels.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 2:03 PM
I love it!
Posted by: A CrownHeightsLady at August 5, 2009 2:10 PM
Lovely house in a fine location. The price seems about right for the current market, but I'd wait a year until it is asking 950K--then pounce.
Posted by: shillstoner at August 5, 2009 2:13 PM
here's the listing cmar
http://www.brooklynhearth.com/listing.php?id=748
Posted by: the chicken at August 5, 2009 2:26 PM
im sorry but there are MANY MANY MANY better cachet zip codes (if that's your thing) in new jersey than DITMAS PARK. jeez.
also what got better ratings AND was much funnier... real housewives of new jersey or real housewives of new york? hmmm... JERSEY!!!
not exactly sure where all this jersey pride is coming from tho i havent lived there in 8 years
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 2:48 PM
Rob,
Yesterday I told you I liked you... don't make me take it back with your ditmas park hatin' -- defend Jerzy if you must, but step off brother.
Oh -- and I think I am going to play the lotto tonight. The jackpot is $9.5 million. That would be OK with me!
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 2:52 PM
> That comes out to about $450 per square foot
Maybe houses are considerably higher on a $/SF basis than apartments, but shouldn't this be in the 300s/sf?
Posted by: DitmasSnark at August 5, 2009 2:55 PM
Rob, have you ever been to Ditmas Park?
Posted by: sixyearsandcounting at August 5, 2009 2:56 PM
Rob,
I'm guessing the reason Real Housewives of New Jersey got higher ratings (if that's even true) is because they are such shitshows. People love to watch a train wreck.
I stand by my comment. Brooklyn is better than the Dirty Jerz.
And I wasn't talking about cache...I know there's a ton of it in NJ, and believe me...they make sure to tell you every chance they get! :)
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 2:56 PM
Gorgeous house. Nothing missing. Pristine condition. Deep lot. Under FAR.
Given that a similar home recently sold for $1.15M, I think this could go over ask. I guessed $1.265M. It needs more exposure and some competitive bidding.
Posted by: Xris at August 5, 2009 2:58 PM
11217 -
having just weighed the burbs vs. DP question and going with the burbs (pelham) i can tell you my reasons:
1) NYC public schools just can't be counted on to deliver a quality education from K-12. in NJ and westchester, lots of towns can provide this, and i am not into the idea of $60K after taxes for private school for 2 kids.
2) NYC income tax is close to 3% of your income (on top of your property taxes), which in our case bridged the tax difference (we actually end up tax neutral before considering the potential cost of private school).
3) DP is 45 minutes to midtown, pelham is 28.
4) relatively greater safety for my kids, who can roam my neighborhood freely
5) very similar housing stock in pelham compared to DP, with whole neighborhoods within walking distance of the train
6) a seemingly friendlier vibe (at least to us), and a smaller community
that said, DP has lots to offer including much better restaurants. however, it's all a tradeoff and depends on the value you place on each.
Posted by: bklyndoug at August 5, 2009 3:00 PM
Is there a garden shed?
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 3:00 PM
I agree with Xris. This house, given what it has to offer, is priced appropriately for this market. Still would like to know what the kitchen/baths have to offer. Even if they need reno, this would be only about $50k, off, and, who knows, maybe the sellers know someone will low-ball and are really only looking for 1.2 million. I know someone in the DP area who used this stratgy about a year ago and off-loaded their house in about a week - just before the market started to seriously tank. People always say don't over price your house - but I think if you aren't grossly over-pricing it and know someone will low-ball you, a slight over-pricing can sell your house in a heart beat.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 3:02 PM
Bklyndoug:
I appreciate that. Everyone has different things they are looking for. For me, the fact that Pelham has 11,000 residents wouldn't work nor would this:
The racial makeup of the town was 87.33% White, 4.57% Black or African American, 0.08% Native American, 3.96% Asian, 1.82% from other races and 2.23% from two or more races.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 3:04 PM
I actually love Pelham, and that's one of the neighborhoods we considered when we were forced for flee Brooklyn due to circumstances beyond our control. The houses stock is very similar to DP and there's a great little shopping area. Super quick into mid-town... When we moved upstate, I was also shocked to find that we ended up tax-neutral as well. That 3 percent NYC tax adds up to more than you might expect. I still miss Brooklyn, but like bklyndoug says, it's a trade off.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 3:06 PM
pelham -- checked it out -- quite expensive actually.
Posted by: southbrooklyn at August 5, 2009 3:10 PM
> the burbs vs. DP question and going with the burbs (pelham)
I've got "in-laws" in Pelham. It's cute, but definitely falls into the "nice place to visit" category for me. Then again, I don't have kids, so our priorities are different.
Posted by: DitmasSnark at August 5, 2009 3:10 PM
BKDoug, for someone who can afford 1.2M house, NYC tax rate is at the max rate which is right under 4%. NO mortgage tax in NJ.
proximity to Man, gorgeous houses, massive lots,.... the closest equivalent in NJ is probably forest hills section in Newark. While driving thru Newark, wrong turn (into that area) for once yielded a pleasant surprice
Posted by: more4less at August 5, 2009 3:11 PM
11217 -- Too many asians in Pelham?
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 3:16 PM
Haha....too white for my taste, tyburg. Lily white, in fact. Not my cup of tea.
Being raised in an all white suburb, I now highly value diversity and would want my children (if I have any) to grow up and be schooled with kids of all colors and backgrounds.
It's one of the primary reasons why I think NYC is so special.
Diversity.
To me, that is far more important than a large backyard.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 3:25 PM
quote:
Haha....too white for my taste, tyburg. Lily white, in fact. Not my cup of tea.
LOL hHahAhaHhAHAhAHAhAHaHhahhahHAhAHhahAHhHHAAHAHh that coming from the mouth of someone living in park slope is PRICELESS.
(and yes i know park slope is pretty diverse so my joke might not be that funny haha) but you get what i mean
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 3:35 PM
11217 I agree 100%.
Posted by: BH76 at August 5, 2009 3:49 PM
It's slightly different, Rob.
Pelham:
(Race)
White 87.33% White
Black 4.57%
Native American 0.08%
Asian 3.96% Asian
Other 4.05%
(Ethnicity)
Hispanic 8.7%
Non-Hispanic 91.3%
Park Slope:
(Race)
White 66.8%
Black 11.7%
Asian/Pacfic Islander 7.5%
Other 13.6%
(Ethnicity)
Hispanic 25.6%
Non-Hispanic 74.4%
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 3:49 PM
Just to play devil's advocate, 11217, what about quality of education. As someone who played the public school game with many children covering a span of many years, I can say with authority that it's getting tougher and tougher to position your kids in one of the top public elementary schools, and MS is a trade-off either in terms of quality of life or quality of education. Fewer families can actually afford homes in the zoned areas for top schools... Others try to improve local schools, as we did, but never reap the desired results across the board. Variances are getting harder and harder o come by, if not impossible. Sibling variances are soon to be a thing of the past... I love many things about a NYC education - diversity, independence, sophistication, cultural exposure - all fab. Over crowded classrooms, endless prepping for state exams, drastically limited phys ed programs, lock-down middle school campuses, less than $3000 spent per pupil, one of my beautiful and bright enough kids getting shunted to seriously crappy ms due to the lottery, and nothing much I could do about it? Sucks. Plain and Simple. $24K taxes in Westchester - still cheaper than private school (and it covers an endless stream of kids per family). Do I love the $27k per pupil spending in my district? 14-20 kids in a classroom? Endless outdoor and athletic opportunities? State of the art facilities, including nature walks, ceramic studios, tennis courts, etc... You bet.
But here's the catch - would I have traded the plusses of a city education if I hadn't been forced to due to job issues? Probably not. We would have never left Brooklyn. Would my kids have suffered? Probably not? But do I feel slightly selfish about that choice, now that we're actually up there and I see what they're getting? You bet. It's a complex argument, whatever side you take.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 3:52 PM
interesting stats. it actually looks like park slope is more on par with the actual makeup of the united states in general. that's cool.
i grew up in a super diverse area so maybe that's why it just seems normal to me or something. so many white people are always screaming omg diversity diversity blah blah. i find a lot of it disingenuous., im not doubting you tho, i believe you do actually cherish it.
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 3:52 PM
quote:
one of my beautiful and bright enough kids getting shunted to seriously crappy ms due to the lottery, and nothing much I could do about it?
ALOL. what does that kid being "beautiful" have to do with the quality of their education? nhah
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 3:56 PM
This is actually ridiculous
Here's a bigger house, equally charming, in an area closer to midtown than DP, better schools, safer, same taxes (if NYC taxes are added), same diversity FOR HALF PRICE!!!
http://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/South-Orange-Village_NJ_07079_1106650416
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Brooklyn prices are going down down down
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 3:59 PM
Beautiful in that all children are beautiful in spirit and deserve better than some of the crappy educations that are forced on NYC public school kids.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 4:04 PM
Architerrorist:
Believe me when I say this...I'm not judging anyone. I don't even know if I'm going to be able to handle having a child at this stage of the game (or where the hell it would come from) and I certainly don't know all the ins and outs of the NYC public school system (other than knowing that it's a HUGE game which one must be good at).
I will admit it's easier for me to sit back and say these things without kids, but at the same time I do know that I could never and would never live outside a city center. I spent far too many years as a kid in the burbs and hated it, even then. It's just who I am now...a city boy through and through. The things I appreciate most are diversity, public transportation, a walkable lifestyle, varied dining and access to high quality music and culture within close proximity to my home.
That obviously comes out in my posts, but I don't mean to imply that I don't understand all of the compromises that come along with raising children.
I appreciate your honesty about where you were, where you are and everything in between. The only thing I know for sure is that it's not easy.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 4:05 PM
No child deserves to have their soul crushed due to an absolutely awful educational experience, although perhaps some would argue otherwise...
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 4:06 PM
"I will admit it's easier for me to sit back and say these things without kids, but at the same time I do know that I could never and would never live outside a city center."
Yet you are advising families to invest top dollar in Brkln.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 4:10 PM
I don't buy this "closer to midtown" argument at all. If you live outside of the city, you're beholden to a train schedule. So while the actual train ride may be shorter, the train may only run every 30 minutes or every 60 minutes at certain times of day. Plus, you generally have to drive to the train station from home in the morning, and then drive back in the evening, which is additional time, cost and hassle. Even at rush hour, when the commuter trains run more often, I'm always so grateful as I watch the poor suckers RUNNING for the subway so they don't miss the connection to the 6:13 train back to Maplewood. If I miss one subway train, it's no biggie: I can wait five minutes and grab the next one. Or, coming back to Brooklyn late at night, I can just hail a cab.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:11 PM
As the white mother of a nonwhite (Chinese) kid, I don't think I (or she) could stand moving to a place that was 85-90 percent white. So far, so good in school for us (she's in a great middle school), and I think we'll finish off fine in a good-to-great high school. It's hard right now because the neighborhood schools in many wonderful nabes are not good, but the next 10 years without easy variances should improve enough neighborhood schools to make it ok. At least I hope so.
Meanwhile, I love the fact that she is a child of the city and of the world. Give her a metrocard and a cell phone and, at 13, she's great.
Posted by: rf at August 5, 2009 4:11 PM
It is actually BETTER to have a train schedule as one can time ones chores and what not. Obviously you never commuted by train.In addition, it is a much better space for doing work.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 4:15 PM
Hear, hear, 11217 and rf. And for the record, Maplewood Guy, I agree with 11217 and I *have* a kid I've raised in Brooklyn. Some of us are just city folks, and want our kids to have the benefits that come from growing up in a vital urban environment.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:15 PM
11217, I hear you, and I'm just playing devil's advocate.
But let me just share this with you. I grew up in an almost all-white, mind-numbingly dull suburb. I swore up and down that I would NEVER leave a city center. I spent the past 20 years living in central London, Manhattan, finally Brooklyn. My husband and I were in 100 percent agreement that we would never leave. We would fight to make the system work for our kids, and it did for some of them, if not for others... But still, we never thought about moving.
Then there was something called the recession. Feeding our children mandated that we relocate. We had no choice. For the first time in our lives, we were forced to leave our beloved urban dwelling. Now, I hope this never happens to you, but honestly, it could. Anything can happen. No one truly knows what the future holds. It's great to have ideals, but sometimes they are compromised.
Being forced to move to a semi-rural (not really suburban) Westchester community has been a huge shock to the system. Would I move back to Brooklyn? I might. But now, in contrast to when I lived in Brookly, I have a nagging guilt about forcing my kids back into NYC public schools. I argued for years that NYC schools were not inferior, what they offered was superior to anything suburbia had to offer, in a nut-shell, we thought we were BETTER. We thought we were too good to live in the suburbs. We denied that our children might possibly be suffering on some level because of our refusal to leave the city. Maybe, to be a little kinder to ourselves, we didn't even realize it. Until we got out here and couldn't deny what are kids were getting, educationally.
I'm still in mourning for the sophistication, fredom, cultural exposure, interactions, experiences, etc... that are truly only the domain of the city child. And that is all I ever imagined for my children from the day they were born. Part of me would love to give that back to them... And then I think of what I would have to take away... and I just can't do that either. There is no escape, no matter where I raise them now. There is no perfect world. From my perspective, in terms of my children, neither Brookyn nor Bedford is a clear winner.
So wherever life takes you, 11217, and any future little ones, I wish you the best... Make the most of wherever you are, whenever you are.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 4:18 PM
"Yet you are advising families to invest top dollar in Brkln."
Do you have any idea how unhinged you sound in nearly every one of your posts, Maple? I'm not advising anybody. I'm making comments on a blog. These are my opinions and nothing more. If someone is going to spend 1.2 million dollars on a home, I'd hope they have the good sense to not listen to some random on brownstoner and do their own research.
Are you THAT desperate for business out in NJ?
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 4:19 PM
Maybe it's because I went to shitty urban public schools, but I don't think the current NYC public schools are particularly bad. Or maybe I just don't value education that highly.
Assuming that costs and taxes, inclusive of R.E. and local/state income, are equal, the one tremendous advantage that certain suburbs have is proximity to nice outdoor areas. If you're in South Orange you can go to South Mountain, or if you're in Sleepy Hollow you have the Rockefeller Park Preserve, etc. In Brooklyn you have sorry-ass Prospect Park. To me the big drawback of the suburbs is being tied to a train schedule, and the fact that for a lot of places in NYC you'd want to go, you'll end up switching to the subway anyway.
Posted by: Sparafucile at August 5, 2009 4:20 PM
Park Sloper: no one denies that it is possible to rip benefits from raising a child in the city.
WHAT WE ARGUE is that it is impossible to do without spending a million+. Families are priced out unless they sacrifice education, space, safety and/or commuting time.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 4:21 PM
Sorry, Sloper, I mean, do you have just one child so you can afford your urban lifestyle? No judgement being passed at all, just curious if that is part of your plan, your way of balancing your needs and the child's.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 4:21 PM
one thing that annoys me is people who move into a city, any city really, and then toot their own horns saying how worldly they are are and how terrible the suburbs are and how their children are much more worldly and smart and beautiful because they are getting a city upbringing.
puh-lease.
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:22 PM
"WHAT WE ARGUE"? No, strange Mapley person, it's what YOU argue. And you live in Jersey, so I really don't understand what skin you have in this game. And you're wrong, by the way: I raised my child in Brooklyn, sent her to private school, am now sending her to an Ivy League college, and did so spending well under a million bucks for a spacious garden duplex in one of the finest urban residential neighborhoods in the country. And you're wrong on another count, by the way: I most certainly have commuted by train, hailing from -- you guessed it! -- the New Jersey suburbs originally. Tried it, didn't like it, and I get plenty of work (i.e. reading) done on the subway. So spare me your judgments. "Families are priced out unless they sacrifice education, space, safety and/or commuting time," you say. Sure, but there are other types of sacrifices to be made if opting for suburban life. It's all a matter of taste, and proclivities, and priorities. To each his/her own.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:30 PM
Actually the city cultural edge over any other place around here is minimal and overrated on this board.
There is no ART created here--just consuming. You can't have art in million dollar houses. As far as consuming, since much art is digital nowadays it can be consumed anywhere.
The only thing that remains is some coolness, hipster factor. A family would not care less for it.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 4:31 PM
I grew up in a working-class suburb (Hicksville, on Long Island). I had a stultifyingly boring childhood and a mediocre education. I know that my daughter's education has been much better than mine was, and I am SO GLAD that she doesn't have to endure the agony that was Hicksville Junior High School.
Posted by: rf at August 5, 2009 4:33 PM
quote:
I raised my child in Brooklyn, sent her to private school, am now sending her to an Ivy League college, and did so spending well under a million bucks for a spacious garden duplex in one of the finest urban residential neighborhoods in the country
wow. do you want a medal for that? it's mind boggling the elitism that some people have. BARF!
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:34 PM
You're right, Maplewood. The art coming out of South Orange is stellar.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 4:35 PM
The only thing that remains is some coolness, hipster factor. A family would not care less for it.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 4:31 PM
Maybe not your family. Don't talk for mine.
Posted by: rf at August 5, 2009 4:35 PM
Antiterrorist: yes, I just have one child. That's definitely a part of the calculation. $25k per year for private school versus $25k in property taxes is a fair trade-off to gain all the other benefits of giving my child the advantages of a city upbringing. There's no question that the mathematics change if you have more children. And I've been lucky in the recession -- am making less than in previous years, but still enough to sustain the lifestyle. Your earlier posting about being forced to leave the city for economic reasons was quite poignant. I can definitely relate, and am just grateful that I wasn't forced to make a similar choice. Although I must say, I know people that live in northern Westchester and it's really quite lovely ... a much more palatable choice than, say, Maplewood!
Rob: puh-lease yourself. My child IS much more worldly and sophisticated because she grew up in NYC. There's simply no question about it. You would be, too, if you'd had her advantages when you were growing up.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:36 PM
you do realize that people who "have boring childhoods" are basically boring people, right? it would be like complaining omg my childhood was SO smelly. newsflash, you smelled! this thread is giving me heartburn
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:36 PM
quote:
Rob: puh-lease yourself. My child IS much more worldly and sophisticated because she grew up in NYC
im no, she AINT!
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:38 PM
Sloper sounds like you played the game and won - bought in a prime location when it was way cheaper, limited yourself to one child, could afford the private school option... If I had been inclined to stop at just one child, I would have done exactly as you did.
I think Maplewood's point is, however, that once you have more than one child, things become much more complicated when you try to raise then in an urban environment, at least if you're not seriously well-off. I was committed to raising a large brood in the city - only when I was forced to go over to the other side was I forced to confront the upside to raising a larger family outside of the city.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 4:39 PM
this thread is giving me heartburn
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:36 PM
So don't read it!
Posted by: rf at August 5, 2009 4:39 PM
I grew up in the country, and then lived the rest of my life in various cities.... I actually think I'm more worldly than most city folk. I'm not scared of a cow and I know where eggs come from (the hind end of a chicken, if you didn't know... and they're very warm when they come out.)
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 4:39 PM
What's elitist about what I said, rob? I was just responding to those who seem to think it's impossible to do what I've done without being a millionaire. My family is living proof that it is.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:40 PM
Sorry Sloper - our posts crossed!
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 4:40 PM
"it's really quite lovely ... a much more palatable choice than, say, Maplewood!"
can you say prejudice. unfortunately moving to PS means you have to deal with such people. another minus for brooklyn.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 4:42 PM
Everything else aside, I love this house and makes me yearn to return to DP! Still, I am in no condition to do another kitchen/multiple bathroom reno... Will take years to recover emotionally!
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 4:43 PM
quote:
I think Maplewood's point is, however, that once you have more than one child, things become much more complicated when you try to raise then in an urban environment, at least if you're not seriously well-off.
-- you do realize that is what Section 8 vouchers are for, right? unfortunately the only way to get a section 8 voucher in this stupid city is if you pop out crotchfruit like a pez despenser or if you man likes to beat you. BOO!
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:43 PM
Park Slope is a coveted, somewhat heterogeneous suburb of Manhattan. So are Maplewood and South Orange. So why can't we be friends?
Posted by: Sparafucile at August 5, 2009 4:44 PM
My child IS much more worldly and sophisticated because she grew up in NYC. There's simply no question about it. You would be, too, if you'd had her advantages when you were growing up.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:36 PM
This is the kind of sickening crap you read in that top of Page 2 in the NY Times where all these full of themselves New yorkers write in about the witty and intelligent things their kids have said. I suspect most of the kids grow up with severe emotional difficulties.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 4:46 PM
quote:
Park Slope is a coveted, somewhat heterogeneous suburb of Manhattan. So are Maplewood and South Orange. So why can't we be friends?
QUOTE OF THE DAY!!!!!
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:47 PM
Antiterrorist: I completely understand the point about it being more complicated staying in the city once you have more children.
Of course, Mapley guy's point goes beyond that. He seems to think anyone would be crazy (including the likes of *rob*) to want to live in Brooklyn. I think he should start a new blog, called Maplewooder, and then we can all go on there and trash the people who choose to live there. I wonder how they'd like that?
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:47 PM
DIBS -- that was funny. (And probably true)
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 4:48 PM
It's a really nice house but it's just not my cup of tea architecturally. I like 'em older.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 4:49 PM
"There is no ART created here--just consuming."
Silly.
Posted by: East New York at August 5, 2009 4:49 PM
fortunately the park slope upbringing made park sloper an open minded tolerant person. hahahaha
well a couple with one child and a median income cannot raise a kid in the city without serious compromises nowadays.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 4:50 PM
"can you say prejudice. unfortunately moving to PS means you have to deal with such people. another minus for brooklyn."
And you probably don't even see the irony in your completely prejudice statement.
I think it's safe to say, Maplewood...you've lost this battle.
The sheer fact that Brooklyn real estate prices are higher than Maplewood's means that it's more desirable. You do realize that, correct...? No amount of your blabbering is going to turn Maplewood into New York City.
P.S. I don't see Real Estate tour buses set up by Park Slope agents trying to lure folks from NJ over to our neck of the woods, but I have heard the reverse is true!
Did you start those...?
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 4:50 PM
quote:
I like 'em older.
and that is the ONLY time youll ever hear that coming out of dave's mouth
(also isnt maplewood one of those NY times Buzz Towns? like montclaire and stuff?
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 4:51 PM
"Rob: puh-lease yourself. My child IS much more worldly and sophisticated because she grew up in NYC. There's simply no question about it. You would be, too, if you'd had her advantages when you were growing up.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:36 PM"
Condescending much?
Your child is worldly and sophisticated because YOU are worldly and sophisticated. You think that if you moved to the suburbs your child wouldn't be exposed to sushi?
Also, this is the age of the Internet - have telephone wire, will travel.
Feel better Rob?
Posted by: the chicken at August 5, 2009 4:51 PM
"Rob: puh-lease yourself. My child IS much more worldly and sophisticated because she grew up in NYC. There's simply no question about it. You would be, too, if you'd had her advantages when you were growing up.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:36 PM"
Condescending much?
Your child is worldly and sophisticated because YOU are worldly and sophisticated. You think that if you moved to the suburbs your child wouldn't be exposed to sushi?
Also, this is the age of the Internet - have telephone wire, will travel.
Feel better Rob?
Posted by: the chicken at August 5, 2009 4:52 PM
Maplewood, to be fair, you should be posting listings in Milburn or Summit if you're going to flaunt some legit BK alternatives in NJ. In that area of NJ, Milburn has much better schools than Maplewood or South Orange AND the ppty taxes are much lower (of course they spank you via higher purchase price).
Posted by: more4less at August 5, 2009 4:53 PM
"well a couple with one child and a median income cannot raise a kid in the city without serious compromises nowadays."
Nothing a higher IQ and a better paying job wouldn't fix.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 4:53 PM
Oh, puh-lease, DIBS. You don't know my child. She's the most well-adjusted, warm, friendly, sophisticated 19-year-old you could ever have the pleasure to meet. I can only compare her to, say, the way I was at her age. I didn't have the advantages of the diversity, culture, energy, education and the rest of it that she had, and there's no question that it made all the difference. It's easy for you gay guys with no kids to make these kinds of judgments. There's a REASON families who could afford to live in large spreads in the burbs CHOOSE to raise their kids in the city. Just like there's a reason a gay man might prefer to live in the city (including Brooklyn!) rather than the suburbs. Think about it.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 4:56 PM
My income is shockingly low, but we get by. Maybe it's a great city for rich families and poor families!
Posted by: rf at August 5, 2009 4:59 PM
I don't really care if i have a higher IQ or not but if I had a better paying job I'd live in a townhouse on Bloomberg's block, or the Jennifer Connolly mansion but the latter would kinda be slumming it, much akin to this discussion about DP vs. MW.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:00 PM
It really is the larger family issue... When my older ones fly the coop, we may well return with just the little one (far younger than the others) in tow. But at that point, I would be following Sloper's model.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 5:00 PM
"well a couple with one child and a median income cannot raise a kid in the city without serious compromises nowadays."
Hey, Maple Guy, I agree with you!
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 5:00 PM
Park Sloper,
While I understand what you are trying to say I really think that you are misguided as as a result more insulting than you might imagine.
You could have raised your daughter in the burbs and come out with the same result. It's all a matter of what you expose them to. I grew up in the burbs and my folks made sure that we were exposed to all of the same that you wished for and gave to your child.
I also don't think that being gay and having or not having kids has anything to do with understanding this. You can process a thought without having given birth.
Try to expand your horizons a little.
Posted by: TownhouseLady at August 5, 2009 5:04 PM
No, I don't know your child Park Sloper but why did you even bring him/her into the discussion anyway. Every NYC parent thinks their child is sophisticated.
Besides, sophisticated is A. a matter of opinion and B. relative. I'm sure if we got a group of self-centered NYC parents together they could all out-argue each other as to how sophisticated their respective children were.
This is really the kind of crap you ONLY hear in NYC and its what makes New Yorkers distasteful and ugly to the rest of the country.
I'm sorry for picking on you and your son but this is a pet peeve of mine and you opened the door. Don't take it personally.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:04 PM
And I agree with both of you that it is expensive to raise a child properly in NYC.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:05 PM
This is really the kind of crap you ONLY hear in NYC and its what makes New Yorkers distasteful and ugly to the rest of the country.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:04 PM
I suspect actually that this whole blog would be seen as distasteful and ugly to the rest of the country especially in view of the real estate prices :)
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:10 PM
it's also tough raising a dog!!! some weeks i need to buy the cheapie dog food and sometimes i can manage to buy the premium. perhaps i just dont have what it takes to survive in nyc! hahah
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 5:12 PM
Townhouse lady, I think you may have misunderstood the point I was trying to make to DIBS (or perhaps I didn't express it clearly). Most of my gay friends who have moved to NYC from elsewhere in the country did so because there is a certain freedom here, and a certain culture and energy, that you find in few other places. Similarly, many people (like myself, who grew up mostly in the suburbs) who choose to raise their kids in the city do so because there is great value to the daily exposure to the energy, diversity, culture, etc. that only life in the big city can offer. I'm sure your parents did what they could to expose you (as did mine) to all of these good things, but I honestly don't think it's the same as *living* here. If I'm not mistaken, I believe you are a parent (or a prospective parent, renovating a townhouse to raise your family in), so even though you grew up in the suburbs, it sounds like you've made a similar choice.
Telling me to expand my horizons, suggesting that I think one cannot process a thought without giving birth, is more insulting than you might imagine....
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 5:14 PM
Park Sloper...
(1) Do you plan on giving your daughter a chunk of cash to buy a house when she gets married? and (2) Is she single and looking for a husband?
I am very much interested in meeting her. I like worldly women, especially ones with dowries.
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 5:14 PM
I know several parents in the Slope who have one or more kids & median income (which in my opinion is actually low for NYC) who do just fine here.
I know people in Ridgewood, NJ w/ fairly high incomes & who are sophisticated & polished but whose kids are dull potatoes.
You can find any kind of kid, any level of income & any level of education, behavior, poise, etc. - one swallow does not a summer make.
Look at some of the scholarship kids from the Times - some who lived on their own in subways & managed to make top SAT scores! Nature, nurture - each contributes. This whole discussion is pointless.
Posted by: Arkady at August 5, 2009 5:14 PM
rob, I hear ya. I gave up my aquarium because along with it my house in the ghetto is also underwater and it was either the fish or the weekly case of Amarone.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:15 PM
rob:
you owe it to your dog to move to Jerzy. No wait, he won't become cool, cultured, sophisticated
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 5:16 PM
"This is really the kind of crap you ONLY hear in NYC and its what makes New Yorkers distasteful and ugly to the rest of the country."
I am recently back from a week in the Bay area, and trust me Dave...they have these SAME discussions about how sophisticated their children are and the like.
Same goes for LA. Maybe even worse than here in some instances. They are far more materialistic when it comes to their kids than they are here, if you can imagine.
When it comes to kids, it don't matter whether you're from Beverly Hills or Hillbillyville, everyone think their kids shit don't stink.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 5:16 PM
Rob,
At least your dog is sophisticated enough to poop on concrete. I hear those dogs in the burbs prefer grassy backyards.
How uncultured!
Posted by: TownhouseLady at August 5, 2009 5:17 PM
P Sloper...agree with your 5:14 post...well said.
Arkady .... I will refrain from commenting on the "one swallow" line.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:17 PM
Tyburg:
I literally just laughed so hard, I nearly fell off my chair.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 5:18 PM
"perhaps i just dont have what it takes to survive in nyc! hahah"
Stop stealing my lines, Rob.
Posted by: East New York at August 5, 2009 5:18 PM
"one swallow does not a summer make"
Ain't THAT the truth!!!!
Never heard that quote before, but it certainly must be in the running for Bstoner quote of the summer.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 5:19 PM
Yes, 11217, I'm sure LA is even worse and Pacific heights would be the UES on steroids.
I probably should have said "most of America."
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:19 PM
Oh woops, sorry Dave. Didn't see your post about trying to refrain. :)
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 5:21 PM
ha! my dog is originally from jersey too, just like me! okay it's almost time for me to hop on the R train back to that magical worldy and diverse fantasyland known as park slope!
ha. see you all tomorrow
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 5:22 PM
Thanks, DIBS! :-)
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 5:22 PM
"This whole discussion is pointless."
Thank you Arkady. I was getting ready to mouth off, you saved me from myself.
Posted by: cobblehiller at August 5, 2009 5:22 PM
11217....I think it should be the theme for the party at Ellis tomorrow.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:24 PM
I love this blog.
Posted by: infinitejester at August 5, 2009 5:25 PM
"one swallow does not a summer make"
Where is BRG for the re-write!!
Posted by: cobblehiller at August 5, 2009 5:25 PM
Why does that have to be rewritten... it's filthy enough. mmm.
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 5:27 PM
This discussion continues in the OT.
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:29 PM
Imagine if the poor homeowner was directed to this thread!!!!
Posted by: daveinbedstuy at August 5, 2009 5:34 PM
Park Sloper,
Full disclosure, my home is in Jersey City and we don't have children yet. I just happen to love this type of housing stock and our jobs require our proximity to Manhattan.
Thing is I wouldn't, once/if we have kids be opposed to staying in this house or moving to the burbs. My husband is a city kid and I'm from the burbs so I understand both sides. We would make sure that they were exposed to both sides of the coin regardless. Live in the city? Summer at the Grandparents and exposure to the lifestyle of beach living and gardening on The Chesapeake Bay. Live in the Burbs? Lots of visits to the culture and lifestyle that their Manhattanite Grandparents could expose them to.
When you said:
"similarly, many people (like myself, who grew up mostly in the suburbs) who choose to raise their kids in the city do so because there is great value to the daily exposure to the energy, diversity, culture, etc. that only life in the big city can offer."
I agree, and like I said initially, I understood what you were getting at. It's just that I had advantages by growing up in the burbs that my husband could have only hoped for. So it's a two sided coin and your initial posts came off as very arrogant. As though all kids from the burbs were toothless hillbillies that didn't know what fork to use at dinner.
Thanks for clearing it up in your 5:14 post.
Posted by: TownhouseLady at August 5, 2009 5:35 PM
I must have been upstate for too long. I thought the swallow quote was quite lovely, in the purest sense! But then again, I now actually see swallows, so perhaps my point of reference has expanded ;)
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 5:35 PM
God I love that fireplace.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 5:36 PM
"it's filthy enough"
I agree tyber6, but I can't help thinking that she would have ideas on how to spoof off it.
Posted by: cobblehiller at August 5, 2009 5:36 PM
OMG. I just realized that I went to school with a person that used to live in this house.
Posted by: cobblehiller at August 5, 2009 5:40 PM
"Rob: puh-lease yourself. My child IS much more worldly and sophisticated because she grew up in NYC. There's simply no question about it. You would be, too, if you'd had her advantages when you were growing up."
Park Sloper, worldly and sophisticated? I find many New Yorkers just as provincial as the rest of the world (if not more) because they think everything is centered on NYC and nothing exists beyond the Hudson. Lots of my students refused to even consider colleges outside the Boston-Washington corridor.
Tybur6, excellent point about the merits of growing up in a rural environment.
Posted by: sixyearsandcounting at August 5, 2009 5:41 PM
In other news, I think this house is gorgeous!
Posted by: TownhouseLady at August 5, 2009 5:45 PM
Park Sloper, where did your child go to high school?
Posted by: sixyearsandcounting at August 5, 2009 5:46 PM
I couldn't agree more about many New Yorkers being among the most provincial of people. My daughter went to a Brooklyn private school for grades 1-8, then transferred to a private school in Manhattan for high school. It was almost laughable how many of the kids who had grown up on the Upper East Side lived such small lives, considering anything south of 59th Street to be "downtown." They assumed my kid must have grown up poor in the ghetto when they learned that she was from Brooklyn. She opened their eyes by getting them on the subway, taking them to parts of Brooklyn and Queens they'd never heard of. Then she left for college in the midwest, but found it too small and low-energy and is transferring to a large university in September.
I really didn't mean to sound arrogant in my earlier posts. (If you knew me, you'd know I'm actually anything but arrogant in person!) I just have strong feelings about the advantages of growing up in the big city, assuming one has the means (though I'm far from rich!) to house and educate one's family in safe, stimulating environment. It's a choice: I grew up partly in the New Jersey suburbs, and hated it, so I have a visceral reaction against the idea of raising kids there. It doesn't mean it's not the right choice for other people, just not for me.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 6:04 PM
Park Sloper, I have to say it seems a bit disingenuous to talk about how worldly and sophisticated your child is while acknowledging that you sent her to a private school costing $25,000/year. I'd prefer my child to be exposed to all kinds of kids, and school is where most of that takes place. If your only exposure is families who can afford private, with the few scholarship kids (and families on financial aid who make more than $150,000/year) your child got a very warped view of this country, Brooklyn, and NYC. She might have become just as worldly going to a suburban school that actually had some real middle class families -- the ones who can barely afford $300,000 homes -- from families who might not be as highly educated as the ones who choose and can afford private school. Maplewood Guy sounds like many parents I know who had to move out of NYC because their budget wasn't 1 million for a house, but 1/3 of that. I'd like my child to meet those kinds of families, too, since they make up the vast majority of people in this country.
Posted by: CGfan at August 5, 2009 6:07 PM
CGfan, I fully acknowledge the contradiction. I always intended to send her to public school, but we had such a disappointing kindergarten experience that we pulled her out and put her in private school instead. But she's grown up with exposure to a diverse group of families, most of whom sent their kids to public school, or to some mix of public and private over the years. We all struggle to make it work, and I'm not saying it's easy, or that there aren't compromises to be made for everyone.
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 6:22 PM
Maplewood guy, Can't say I agree with you about the schools in your town. We considered it, but were turned off by the low performing public schools.
Posted by: dt at August 5, 2009 6:26 PM
Trust me - there is no "perfect."
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 6:31 PM
I just realized I've been calling you Antiterrorist instead of Architerrorist! :-)
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 6:33 PM
usound like a good dad parksloper, hope my earlier posts werent too abrasive.
*rob*
Posted by: PitbullNYC at August 5, 2009 6:33 PM
Thanks, Rob. Sorry it didn't come across in writing that my tongue was firmly in cheek when I said my kid is more sophisticated than you are! (Although, based on what you've said about your upbringing, I might still be right!)
Posted by: Park Sloper at August 5, 2009 6:36 PM
dt: You don't know what you are talking about. Maplewood has #1 elementary schools, high school is top 25% but as the poster above mentioned the breadth of offerings is amazing (esp in arts and media). Best graduates end up in Ivy league.
The town spends for a student more than what a park sloper pays for private school. This is compare to NJ schools. There is no comparison to the NYC schools: less than $3k per student.
Do yourself a favor and if you have a kid forget prospect and the rest of the heights
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 6:43 PM
if you like a top high school you can move to nearby millburn: #1 high school but less diversity. Or to Pelham as the poster above suggested.
No need to pay millions for house and private tuition to get a decent education.
By the way the school not satisfying your standards is on the top high school newsweek list
http://www.newsweek.com/id/201160/?s=new+jersey&q=2009/rank/1
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 6:56 PM
If my kids were at Stuyvesant, I would buy this house. Express bus from Cortelyou Road. That would be a sweet set up. I know many 70s-80s DP residents who were lucky enough to have this set up.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 5, 2009 7:44 PM
Honestly, we've been looking at Bedford/Pound Ridge area on and off for a while now.
You can play this all sorts of ways, but with more than 1 kid (or more than 2!) school is the thing. And I'm not convinced private is the answer. I live in Brooklyn Heights -- I see the private school kids and I wonder. I don't know. Maybe it's just me getting old.
What I am sure about is that I'll try to teach my kids that there are no right ways to do anything and that includes how/where to raise kids. Pride cometh before the fall, etc.
Nice house. Bathroom set-up not ideal, but not a deal breaker.
Posted by: Ringo at August 5, 2009 8:12 PM
Greatschools rates Maplewood middle school a 5 out of 10 and the high school 6 out of 10.
Grade 11 students who scored as proficient:
Language Arts Literacy
86% (2008)
89% (2007)
87% (2006)
90% (2005)
The state average for Language Arts Literacy was 83% in 2008.
Math
80% (2008)
78% (2007)
82% (2006)
84% (2005)
The state average for Math was 75% in 2008.
This doesn't seem all that great to me.
Posted by: dt at August 5, 2009 8:48 PM
Maplewood guy, Here is the greatschools rating for one of your towns elementary schools.
This is not #1, sorry.
Clinton Elementary School, located in Maplewood, New Jersey, serves grades K-5 in the South Orange-Maplewood School District. Based on its state test results, it has received a GreatSchools Rating of 4 out of 10.
Parents have reviewed this school and given it an average rating of 5 out of 5 stars.
Posted by: dt at August 5, 2009 8:52 PM
Neighbors you know what they say about misery.
Another day on brownstoner and the price tag on a 1 family home (on the other side of the park) continues too shock the masses. I'd like to see this one go for 1.2
Posted by: jack slade at August 5, 2009 9:13 PM
dt: you forgot to mention that according to greatschools.net, The other two maplewood elementary schools (jefferson, tuscan) are rated 7/10 and for comparison the park slope and the two ditmas elementary schools are rated 4/10.
So EVEN WITH YOUR RATINGS maplewood schools are twice as good from the park slope-ditmas ones hahahahaha
But even if maplewood does not meet your standards you can find many other affordable top schools districts outside Brooklyn. THAT'S THE POINT.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 9:36 PM
So if you go with the dt's greatschool ratings it would be unacceptable to send your kid to the area's public schools. So in addition to $1.2 million one needs to add private school tuition. this is ridiculous for a house one hour from midtown no less.
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 9:40 PM
45 mins.
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 9:43 PM
One hour from midtown? 45 minutes at most.
Posted by: sixyearsandcounting at August 5, 2009 9:46 PM
1 hour 18 mins
to columbus circle according to google
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 9:48 PM
By the way do you know what means one hour trip in a subway car? You feel dizzy for hours afterwards
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 9:54 PM
Google says 43 mins.
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 9:56 PM
Maplewood guy, if you're going to call me out for posting about a low scoring elementary school from Maplewood you need to post about ALL the elementary schools in Maplewood, not just the couple of 7 out of 10s. You are only posting about the best ones, and they aren't even #1 schools. There are others that score as 4s that I didn't mention. If you're going to bring up Park Slope:
P.S. 321 William Penn School
Public · K-5
Brooklyn, NY 11215
Rates an 8 out of 10.
MS 51 rates a 9 out of 10.
Please help me understand what you are saying. If you are going to quote scores from John Jay, forget it... no one in the slope sends their kids there.
Why are we even talking about Park Slope? There are many neighborhoods and schools beyond Park Slope? Once kids get to the middle school level they start applying all over the city.
Posted by: dt at August 5, 2009 10:00 PM
Dizzy? Really...
Anyway. I really good solution. Don't work in Manhattan. I actually hate going to Manhattan for work related activities. It's so crowded and stinky. Drinking, Museums and Central Park are a whole different story, of course.
Get a job in Brooklyn!! If you own the company, move it to Brooklyn!
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 10:01 PM
Dizzy after an hour in the subway? You need to see a doctor.
1 hr 18 mins to Columbus Circle? What crack are we smoking? 50 minutes according to Hopstop on the B from Newkirk to 59th St., or 52 minutes on the Q to 57th St/7th Ave.
Posted by: sixyearsandcounting at August 5, 2009 10:11 PM
Can someone please explain to me why someone (MaplewoodGuy) would spend time on a blog about brownstones and Brooklyn, when he seems not to care about the former, and acts as if he despises the latter...?
Please tell us broker from Maplewood why you troll this site telling people they are wrong to want to live in Brooklyn on a website devoted to people who love it.
Do you see anything slightly off kilter (and I'm being kind) about that at all?
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 10:15 PM
p.s. I think you are doing more harm than good for your cause, Maplewood. Your closed-minded nature has reminded me EXACTLY what I hated about the suburbs. Most of us are here because we LOVE where we live. You are here to HATE where everyone else lives. Not really very conducive for much of anything.
And you're certainly not giving Maplewood a very good name (assuming it had one before this conversation).
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 10:20 PM
right tybur my bad 43min
11217: i explained in another thread--i am looking to move to brooklyn
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 10:20 PM
but i can't see why a middle class family would like to
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 10:21 PM
You're looking to move to Brooklyn??
Why are you shitting all over it then?
Are you still dizzy from your last subway ride...?
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 10:23 PM
Watch you fucking language, 11217. :-)
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 10:25 PM
Brooklyn is made up of middle class people. The average income for Brooklyn is like 40K a year.
Brownstone Brooklyn (of which this blog focuses on) makes up 10% of the housing stock in Brooklyn (at most), so you seem to be focusing on the wrong crowd. There is a world of Brooklyn out there perfect for those of middle class means. And those of us who live in small spaces on middle class incomes interspersed with those who are much more well off. And people all around who are struggling to get by.
That's the beauty of Brooklyn!
You either make it work or you don't. You don't piss all over it because it's not exactly what you want it to be.
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 10:26 PM
Ty, shouldn't be off trying to court Park Sloper's daughter at Mimi's hummus or something? :)
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 10:27 PM
Brooklyn is great but I hate people herein advertising it as a great middle income (<300K) family town
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 10:29 PM
11217 it wasn't as you describe 20 years or even 10 years ago. I prefer an affordable brooklyn or NYC if you like
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 10:33 PM
Like I said, the average income in Brooklyn is 40 something grand a year and the average home price is, I believe 500K or 600K.
You are on a blog about the most expensive, and least middle class areas in all of Brooklyn. There is still 80% of the borough which is made up primarily of middle and lower class.
I'm not making these numbers up. For every 750k house, there is one for 250k.
It's just not in Park Slope or Brooklyn Heights. Or a masterpiece of a house (like this one) in Ditmas Park...
Posted by: 11217 at August 5, 2009 10:39 PM
Still haven't been to Mimi's Hummus... but you're right. I bet some chickpeas could get me into ParkSloper's family.
I never found out if I was allowed to marry her -- or if she was 'attractive,' financially speaking.
Posted by: tybur6 at August 5, 2009 10:44 PM
11217
that's exactly the problem the average home price is 10-12 times the median home. it should be 3-4 times otherwise people are house poor. as average price is for the newcomers--old residents have already established a lower entry point--brooklyn is unaffordable to newcomers
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 10:55 PM
I hear crack makes you dizzy. This home doubled in cost in 10 years. Let the new buyer worry about the schools. I'd like to assume that a person will sell their Tribecca studio and buy this for all cash.
He only preaches the Jersey gospel in the threads that display pricey homes in predominantly minority neighborhoods.
And he admitted that his goal is to sell his mansion for 500k and buy a BH studio because"prices are going down" BUT
he fails to realize that by that time, his mansion will sell for 17,000.00. Roughly the cost of a kitchen reno with high end Ikea.
Posted by: jack slade at August 5, 2009 10:57 PM
electrical not included
Posted by: jack slade at August 5, 2009 11:00 PM
jack: a ghettobitch wannabe
most posters here are actually from one mold
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 11:03 PM
Grrr something's up with my browser. Anyway, Maplewood, you should check out Marine Park or other areas of southern Brooklyn. Very safe, middle class, decent schools, express buses to Midtown.
Posted by: sixyearsandcounting at August 5, 2009 11:06 PM
ooooh its coming out. so is it a secret mold?
the truth hurts huh? Im where you'd like to be at sucker!
Posted by: jack slade at August 5, 2009 11:07 PM
thanks 6years but no kids --I am looking for something smaller close or in manhattan
jack--why are you keen to bring the jersey crowd to your nabe? anything to dump your overpriced inventory
Posted by: MaplewoodGuy at August 5, 2009 11:13 PM
"why are you keen to bring the jersey crowd to your nabe? anything to dump your overpriced inventory"
You're freebasing right now aren't you? Crack also causes hallucinations.
So tell the brownstoner world. What mold?
Posted by: jack slade at August 5, 2009 11:27 PM
If I wrote something that was false, why not you address it?
Your skirt has been yanked and everyone now sees that you were blabbing all day in your wife's undies. Coward scumbag!
Change your login.
Posted by: jack slade at August 6, 2009 12:34 AM
One of my kids attended 51, and I can say that even before I moved to Westchester, I found it disappointing, academically (not to mention the fact that the physical structure is truly depressing). Of course my kid loved the freedom of "out to lunch," although not so sure I did. Now that my children are actually attending Northern Westchester suburban schools, I find the fact that 51 is hyped as a "one of the better middle schools" pretty pathetic. Middle School in Brooklyn is the most difficult hurdle. Things pick up in HS, but you have to really bit the bullet if you are opting for public MS. Ride it out and hope for the best. Anyone expecting a 321 academic experience (which I rank with the best) from 51 will be sorely disappinted, or will just turn a blind eye and delude themselves. Of course, I would have done just that if we hadn't had to more out of the city...
As for Great Schools - rankings are totally subjective. I would never choose a school for my child based on that site. Quite frankly, when we looked for schools in Westchester, I looked at hard data (College admissions, test scores, $ spent per child, classroom numbers, teachers with advanced degrees, after school programs, etc....), not to mention visits to campuses (yes, campuses!) and checking out the vibe of the schools in question. We ended up tax neutral, as the Maplewood poster also stated in his case. I thought we'd be paying through the nose, but I was wrong. $20k sounds like a lot, but NYC taxes go along way to balancing out the equation (especially if you have an S-Corp).
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 8:45 AM
Also, Pelham really is only about an 18 minute ride into mid-town. Sorry, but it's true. I love Brooklyn, but since I've been banished, I'm in a position to post it like it is.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 8:47 AM
" (If you knew me, you'd know I'm actually anything but arrogant in person!) "
Wow, you're even arrogant about how non-arrogant you are.
Posted by: Sparafucile at August 6, 2009 9:00 AM
Architerrorist, how long as it been since your kids were at 51? There are now other middle schools in District 15 that have good reputations: Math and Science, New Voices, and coming down the pike...BCS. Like the elementary schools, the middle schools can improve very quickly as the same kids in all those good elementary schools move up. Given that those schools can choose their student body based on grades and behavior, it's hard to understand why they wouldn't give a pretty good education to kids. They don't have the same problem as a middle school in the burbs, which takes all kids.
On the other hand, you said in an earlier post that your suburban school district had 14-20 kids/class. Is that really true? If so, it's tempting to move my family there -- I thought suburban schools suffered from the same overcrowding problem as city schools do -- the ones that are the "best" are also the most crowded because everyone wants their kids there.
Posted by: CGfan at August 6, 2009 11:08 AM
Archi - question (you may have answered this already, sorry I'm late). but if it weren't for the job situation and knowing what you know now about the schools - which would you choose ditmas park or westchester?
my husband and i debate this all of the time. we have more than one child and schools are an issue. he wants to move and i want to stay. my main reason is that i have close family here that helps us with the kids. he is like - they will come out on weekends. i just get so confused with staying and 'figuring out' the whole school issue or going and focusing on a 'burb with great public schools.
Posted by: bkny at August 6, 2009 11:19 AM
Gfan -
I had three kids in Brooklyn MS as of last year. Those are recent oberservations.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 12:24 PM
Gfan -
I had three kids in Brooklyn MS as of last year. Those are recent observations.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 12:24 PM
I've tried to respond to the above posts several times, but they were too long and my computer ate them! Yes, my daugher's ELA class in MS has 14 kids. Her most crowded class has 22. Many have 18/19.
My kids attended 3 different Brooklyn MS in 2008. I speak from recent experience. No way you can compare 51 to the MS my daughter attends now. It comes down to money. 2/3rds of my taxes (which are hefty) go to local schools. Spending here is 27k per child. In Brooklyn, it's around 4k. Teachers are great in both places, but you just can't have the same sort of programs, facilities, etc.. without funding.
Kids in MS can take Mandarin if they choose. Not just Spanish. One Brooklyn school my child attended didn't even offer languages. I could go on and on... But I won't.
Had we not been forced to leave Brooklyn, I would never have known what they were missing. Ignorance is bliss. If I knew all my MS kids would end up at Hunter or Stuy for HS, I'd bite the bullet. But most kids don't get there, even from the better MS. One of my kids got into all the "top" Brooklyn middle schools - Twain, Hudde CIG, 51- I had serious issues with all of them. MS is just flat out better in the suburbs... Elementary and HS? Depends.
10 and 12 year olds should not have to battle for spots in decent MS, but that's life in Brooklyn. Yes, I miss the city, but would I drag my kids back now? No. Not until the older ones have flown the nest. At that point I suspect we will return with the little one (big gap) in tow - and we will follow Sloper's model. Private school. I guess that's the answer - As much as I love city life, if I can't afford private school, then I won't bring my kids back.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 12:57 PM
For CGFAN and BKNY:
http://www.westchestermagazine.com/Westchester-Magazine/January-2003/Evaluating-Westchesters-Public-High-Schools/
From 2007 Westchester Mag (spending for 2008 was significantly higher, oddly enough, at least according to our recent budget proposal)
Class Size
Class size is commonly used to determine the quality of a school. The smaller the class size, the bigger the impact the teacher can have, says Ed Lichtenfeld, an adjunct professor at Iona College. This is the standard Terence Peavy, director of Admissions at the Eugene Lang College-New School University lean(s) toward when judging a high school, because, he explains, small classes allow the exchange of ideas, not just the regurgitation of facts and statistics.
In Westchester this year, the smallest average class sizes were found at Fox Lane High (16), Pleasantville (16), Walter Panas (16.4), Dobbs Ferry (17), Briarcliff (18) and Irvington (18). We're very sensitive to class size, says Robert Maher, Briarcliff High School's principal. We even run classes when they shrink below ten students.
But here again, forces beyond a district's control such as budgetary constraints, contractual arrangements with faculty, and increasing enrollment¡ªmay make small class size a difficult goal to achieve. And once again, money helps. ¡°Some communities are willing to pay for the additional teachers needed to keep class size lower, says Stephen Falcone, principal of Fox Lane High School in Bedford.
Student Expenditure
In most cases, the richer the school district, the more it can spend on children. If that money is spent wisely, there is no doubt it can help. As a general rule, Gillette of Yale's Teacher Preparation program says, the more money spent, the better. To support his point, he notes that schools in Maine, Alaska and Connecticut, which spend more on education than schools in all other states, each year outperform schools in all other states. No parent will go seek a school that knowingly spends less, Gillette says.
The schools that spent the most on their students this year were Scarsdale ($19,098), White Plains High School ($18,480), Fox Lane ($18,417) and Briarcliff ($18,000).
But beware! How much a school spends on a child can be affected by such non-curricular expenses as security, transportation, construction, etc... And some expenditures may be low because the school has few non-curricular expenses. For example, non-bussing school districts like Pleasantville tend to have low student expenditures because they save money on transportation.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 1:53 PM
BKNY -
my wife and i were the same as you. she wanted to move, i wanted to stay. that said, i can tell you that the thought and buildup of moving out of bklyn to the burbs is a bigger strain than the reality.
all last summer, while contemplating our move i had trouble sleeping and even thought about walking away from our deposit. i really did not want to go. now that i have been here a year i can see that i wasted a lot of energy and put myself through so much stress for nothing. living in the burbs, while different, is actually quite nice.
we moved to pelham from DUMBO for the schools and the space. i went in with the mindset that the restaurants and the neighbors would probably suck. the former was definitely true. pelham and many other burb towns are culinary wastelands. restaurants used to be a great sourced of enjoyment for us - no more. now we have dinner parties and spend time with friends. just a different brand of fun.
in terms of neighbors, i have been amazed at how great people have been. pelham is filled with what i'll call bklyn "ex-pats". people who had no intention of leaving but for whom space and schools became more important as their families grew. i have actually found that people here are friendlier than they were in bklyn. i think it's because they all realize they are here for a while and so it makes sense to invest in the community and in relationships. bklyn folks, at least in my neighborhood (DUMBO/heights) were more likely to be transient and less involved in stuff. this could also have a lot to do with our kids growing older, which naturally gets you more involved with other parents. whatever the cause, i have been able to build in a year a broader network of good friends than i did in 12 years of living in bklyn. which i never expected.
as evidenced by the fact that i still read bstoner everyday i miss the city a lot (especially the restaurants, the diversity and the energy), and we'll probably move back when the kids are done with high school. that said, the burbs are a great place to raise kids. they have a lot of freedom, more than they did in bklyn. the schools are great. the neighbors wonderful and fun to spend time with. the economics make sense if you are considering private school. we have a yard, a porch and an extra bedroom. and our house is a 5 minute walk from the train, which takes 28 minutes to GCT.
a suggestion - if you are considering the burbs but want to maintain the ties/feel of bklyn look for the following kinds of towns:
- ~ 30 minutes to midtown
- a strong representation of folks who used to live in bklyn. we found that pelham, maplewood, montclair, hastings and irvington had lots of ex-pats. (i'm sure there are others)
towns like bedford and mount kisco are incredibly gorgeous and much less crowded, but were just too far for us.
hope that helps.
Posted by: bklyndoug at August 6, 2009 3:45 PM
Hi Bklyndoug - If we still had a Manhattan commute, Pelham would have been a definite choice for us. However, our move was dictated by a job offer in CT... Just too much of a commute from Brooklyn (we tried it for 6 months...). Northern Westchester was a quick hop, skip and a jump from Greenwich on backroads - we ended up in Pound Ridge. Very beautiful, but a tad isolated and that much further out. Pelham seems to me like a great alternative for Brooklynites, expecially DP types who love that sort of period architecture... still see your neighbors, fantastic schools, nice shopping, so close to Manhattan! I'm envious!
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 5:56 PM
Architerrorist,
Ive heard great things about the Pound Ridge grade schools. Do you hear the same? We live in Brooklyn Heights and only really need to be in the city about 4x a month. Thinking I'd prefer land over something closer in (I grew up in rural so hopefully I know what I'm getting myself into)
Posted by: Ringo at August 6, 2009 6:13 PM
Ringo -
Can't beat Pound Ridge elementary. Talk about idyllic. Gorgous new library with rotunda, playing fields, etc... They actually have to keep snow boots and bibs at school so they can go sledding in the winter!
Since we were limited to the Northern Westchester/Fairfield area, we opted for more space (3.5 acres, pool, etc...) instead if something more neighborhoodish, although I miss sidewalks, walking to shops, etc., which you can have in a place like Pelham or Irvington. I also think taking care of the property is a real chore (landscapers charge astronomical rates, but there's no getting around hiring leaf guys in the fall....). My husband, however, doesn't seem to mind it, so I suppose I shouldn't either :) It is amazingly beautiful. Sometimes I look out the window and think I'm living in the middle of Prospect Park (in the wee morning hours, before people actually arrive...).
My youngest will be attending PR elementary in a few years. I have kids at Fox Lane, too, and am very satisfied. There is actually some cultural diversity there, too, as Mt. Kisc is also zoned for Bedford Central School District.
If you want land and don't care about the commute (it's over an hour to mid-town and parking is tough), it's great. If you live in Bedford Village or Bedford Hills you can get on the waiting list for a parking spot there.
You can always get a spot in Stamford if you only have to be in the city now and then. About 20-25 minute drive from PR. Everything in PR is minimum 2 acres zoning. Nice public pool complex with incredibly cheap day camp (less than $500 for SIX WEEKS). Also building brand spanking new community center which will be an asset. Local food shopping is no worse than the city pricewise and you can get all your basics and indulgences in PR. Target and things over in Mt. Kisco. New Canaan is 15 minutes away and has lots of shopping, restaurants, as is Ridgefield, also very lovely. The Lewisboro School District (The Salems, Katonah) is also excellent, and lots of land around there, too.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 7:35 PM
Also, the door-to-door school bus can't be beat. As much as I miss city life, not having to schlep a multitude of kids to a bunch of different schools has, in some, way given me my life back.
Posted by: Architerrorist at August 6, 2009 7:42 PM
thank you doug & arch! i have alot of thinking to do. it will all depend on whether my oldest gets into a really good public school or we get financial aide for private school. that will really set the tone for the younger ones. school is big for me & making sure my kids are happy and that they have a great upbringing. so if moving to the burbs is it, then i will have to bite it!
Posted by: bkny at August 7, 2009 3:40 PM

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